Medley Wraps are in Malaysia!

Medley is a Czech producer of wraps, Mei Tai, Ponchos and the Alpino Carrier. It has been known as the producer of quality carriers comparable to many well-known brands, at a more affordable price.

Check them out at the Peek-a-Shop today!

Wrap, wrap, wrap!

Though I only know 2 methods (Front Wrap Cross Carry and Rucksack Back Carry), Wrap is great! In any case in babywearing, especially with wraps, knowing just one carrying position is good enough. Know more? More flexibility for yourself though, like me, you would most probably be using one most of the time ;)

We were at the Food Expo in PISA, Penang last Friday to check out... well, food and yes, you guessed it right... there are lots of sampling involved ~yummy yummy~

Initially, my little Arthur was just holding on to my hands (as it was the first day of the Expo, it was not too crowded, so, quite safe to just hold hands)... when we start getting more and more food samplings, we both needed more hands ;)

While the pouch would still be good for us in these situations, all I had with me was the wrap as I foresee Arthur needing a nap later (He's too heavy in the pouch for long hours now)...

So, there you see... happi-ly munching away in the wrap!

As predicted, taking a nap in the wrap... one hour passed by without any discomfort ;)

Want to know about babywearing with Simple Pieces of Cloth like this? Join us at the next Penang Babywearers Gathering! 12th July 2008, 3pm, Rumah Nur, Penang Caring Complex.

Momma Wrap.. Di-e Di-e no carry

Those were the exact words from my little Arthur while we are out today.

This is a pleasant surprise since he started boycotting the sling in March.　

Then again, he does give me a little surprises now and then, helping me demonstrate, or, even volunteering to demonstrate different carrying positions and styles during our gatherings.

The biggest surprise from those words are... well, you guessed it right! He asked to be WRAPPED! Yes, I see that my little boy seems to understand the difference between a "wrap" and a "sling" now. Previously, he had requested, "Momma, sling (referring to the pouch)"...

Perhaps, it's time to teach him the difference between pouches and ring sling, too?

Wrapping again!

I just love The Baby Wearer! Posted my photos from my very first experience in wrapping and got advises to improve the positioning of the fabric to give it better strength and weight distribution... Love it!

Amy's Rucksack Instructions

Thanks to Amy for instructions on the rucksack carry and many thanks to TheBabyWearer for having links to these helpful instructions, I managed to do the rucksack carry with the wrap.

To my surprise, Arthur likes the wrap. Don't know exactly why but he lets me take all the time I need to get it right. Shall I also tell you that I did indeed took my own sweet time to ensure he is all safe and ok with it before daring to bring him out.

So, an hour and more than 3 tries later, we were ready for an outing to show off the wrap！Arthur couldn't wait to show it off, too. He was pointing to the door!.... and, when I asked if he wants to come down.. he shakes his head.

Yes... with a cooperative Arthur, I shall be able to try the wrap out more. Look out for those posts ;)

I'm wrapping! I'm wrapping!

I have read a lot about wrapping and have indeed wondered if I could ever do it. Articles like "Why Wrap..." makes the babywearer in me want to try it very much.

From my previous posts, you would have read that Arthur is getting straps phobia, looking at those long, long straps from the Podaegi. Then again, the Mei Tai was a bit better received.

So, I thought, perhaps a wrap will luck out better since it does not look as strappy... I was right. He was indeed cooperative with the wrap!
So, if I could just master a few more carrying positions, I will be able to really bring Arthur out in a wrap and provide reviews of the suitable fabric though I believe this lightweight cotton stretch fabric will work well ;).

Why a wrap when there are so many carriers available?

An interesting excerpt from
http://www.mamatoto.org/StartHere/ByTypeofCarrier/Wraps/tabid/89/Default.aspx:

"Ring slings are great, and some of the structured carriers are good too. One warning: there is some concern that carriers with a narrow crotch which leave the baby's legs to dangle can be damaging to little spines. Many of the widely available structured carriers are of this type, so please examine the carrier you choose carefully and do some research.

Carrying your baby is so beneficial to you and your child that the carrier that you like to use is the best carrier for you. However, there are a few features of the SPOC (simple piece of cloth) that make it a useful tool, even if you already have and like another sling.

1) Easy to improvise. Once you learn a couple of basic carries, you will never get caught without a sling so long as you can find a length of fabric. Carry your baby on your back using a sweater, tie on a toddler using a scarf, nurse hands-free using a generously-sized baby blanket.
2) Affordable. For as little as $1/yard you can make a great wrap. $5-15 is all it takes to make a 5 yard wrap (which most people find is long enough to do all the carries on this site), and if the fabric is wide enough to cut in half lengthwise, you may get two slings for that price. For as little as $30, you can buy one ready-made. If you'd like something more expensive, don't worry. Hemp silk wraps are available for $200.
3) Easy laundering. No special care is needed (beyond appropriate care for the fabric you choose), and because there are no rings, no buckles, and no padding or layers, it will dry quickly (even on a clothesline) and won't ding up the washer or dryer.
4) Two shoulder carries. For many, this is the big selling point. Ring slings are great for babies, but some parents feel a bit lopsided if they wear the baby in a sling for an extended time. With a long wrap, you can distribute the weight to both shoulders and also your waist.
5) One size fits most. Ring slings can usually be shared between several people, unless they are very different in size, but it's much harder to share pouches and more structured carriers requiring adjustment of buckles. Howver, the wrap that fits you can almost certainly work for your husband, sister, dad, babysitter, or anyone else who takes care of the baby. Perhaps four yards is enough for you to do the wrap cross carry, but not your husband. No problem! He can use the same wrap to do a hip cross carry, or a one shoulder carry, or a strap carry. With a wrap carrier handy, he'll have no excuse to leave you holding the baby. Unless of course you buy a pink wrap with lace ruffles on the end. Then you are on your own. :P
6) Easy to make. Sewing a ring sling isn't hard, but sewing a wrap is ridiculously easy. In fact, you don't even need to sew it at all. Check out our section on making your own wrap."
~Caren Pita

Ever since I started this blog, I have received many feedbacks and comments on the many different possibilities of wearing a baby. Ring Slings, Pouches, Mei Tai, Wraps... Happy, glad, surprised... I now know that though it's not a hot product on the market, some have made known to me that they have Mei Tais and the japanese baby sling, onbuhimo.

It is exactly reasons like these that encourage me to promote it even more and to want to start regular meetings more than ever... You'd never know what you will see!

Anyway, as promised, let me know what you would love to know about on babywearing and I will search it up for you...

Many have expressed interest in knowing the kind of fabric that is suitable for a wrap. Really, anything can be a wrap. It's just a matter of how you would like to tie it and what kind of position you would like to use if for. This pretty much determines the length of the wrap (4.5 metres will generally enable one to do most carrying positions). As for the width, it is recommended by many for it to be something between 20" to 30".

Wrapping is not an option for me now as my little one has gotten used to the convenience of the pouch. The Podaegi could work but he just isn't patient enough to let me tie it on nicely. So, I don't think I would be sharing my own experience on this anytime soon. Will keep trying, though ;)

With my little experience with fabric, I believe lightweight, woven cotton fabric will be suitable for our climate. If you prefer stretchy fabric, you can also opt for the cotton knit fabric. Something you might want to try with... bedsheets!

Why are the ready made ones so expensive? Just like your Cloth Diapers, those specialising in wraps have the fabric specially constructed for the purpose-babywearing! Just as how I still buy pouches from other retailers, you will never know until you try. It could be the fabric. It could be the customer service. It could be the videos included. It could be the never-ending support.... all these are more than just a piece of fabric.

If you do end up trying out wrapping with bedsheets or any other fabric, please do so with caution. Please ensure that your baby is always held on to safely before practising the positions. Again, it would be great to try the different positions out with a doll/bear before practising with the real one. This is especially true with the back carry. You need to have total confidence before trying that!

As for fabric choices, while I did mention that lightweight cotton shall be suited to our hot and humid climate. Please do not get one that is 'too lightweight'. It might not be structured well enough to hold your baby for a long time. Again, try a few and you will see what I mean by 'too lightweight'.

Until the next time, Selamat Babywearing ;)