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Will I ever blog again???

2010-10-25T09:20:00.000+08:00

It's been a while... I wonder if I will ever have the passion to blog again...

Why did I stop? Well... there are so many reasons to this and the main one is to have some privacy, I guess. Also, it really is taking my time off from my Arthur then... he would be playing by himself while I keep staying online... one minute after another... huh... how can a SAHM find a balance between staying in the know and yet be able to spend more time with kids?

GroBaby on Sale!

2010-05-17T10:01:00.004+08:00

We are clearing off our Grobaby products to make way for new ones on the way. Check them out now before it's all gone!

Quick Overview

Natural, Innovative and Affordable.

Truly one size, grows with baby. Soft Organic Cotton Inner, reusable outer shell, snap in soaker pad

Unique proprietary closure system that is secure and will not scratch your baby's soft skin.

Absolutely leak proof and the lay in insert system means you will have a smaller load of laundry to do! Plus it's a more affordable way of cloth diapering (buy a few covers and a lot of inserts, interchange the covers when using and you're set)

Come see what all the fuss is about!

Product Description

No dioxins, 100% organic cotton inners, smaller laundry and drying loads and a cheaper system (if you're using it solely).

What's not to like?

Find out why the Grobaby has exploded onto the US cloth diapering scene and is fast becoming a favorite straight out of the box.

High quality YKK snaps, a proprietary Never Pill hook tab with soft loop fabric that doesn't scratch and built in laundry tabs.

This system is great for travelling because you only need to take multiple snap in soakers instead of entire diapers.

Try one, and you'll see just how easy cloth diapering has become.

Each Shell set comes with :

1 x Shell
1 x organic cotton Snap in Soaker pad
1 x organic cotton Booster

Use

Change outer shell twice a day and inner as needed

Washing

Organic cotton inners must be washed/dried on hot 3 times prior to first use and WILL NOT reach it's full absorbency until approximately 6-8 washes.

Wash hot, tumble dry before use
Remove as much solid matter as possible.
Place soiled soaker pads in a dry diaper pail - no soaking is necessary.
Wash every 2 days.
Start with a cold rinse.
Wash in hot water with half the amount of recommended detergent.
Do an extra rinse if desired.
Tumble dry or hang outside for extra freshness and to remove stains.
Do NOT use bleach, enzyme cleaners or fabric softeners.

Sadness in babywearing advocacy...

2010-04-15T08:57:00.003+08:00

Sad? If you consider what one can get out of babywearing... bonding, attachment, love... you will ask yourself this question: How can babywearing be sad?

Oh no, if you have been reading about the Safety Warning, no, this is not what it is... That, of course, is sad and heart-breaking, too. So, do have a read if you haven't and learn more about the precautions you shall be observing while babywearing.

The 'sad' I am talking about here is when...

1... You tell your friends about babywearing and promote the use of cloth etc... You even go all the way to make them a carrier or gift one to them... but they are just not into it... or worse, they end up buying a crotch-type carrier

2... You try your best to show one the benefits of babywearing (and, even breastfeeding) only to be shunned and given the negative look as though you are trying to pass them a disease!

3... You didn't even talk much and people give you the lecture on 'Why one shall NOT be carrying their babies'

4...

Have you got anything 'sad' to share in babywearing?

Come and join us this Sunday!

2009-09-25T17:02:00.000+08:00

Selamat Hari Raya

2009-09-20T07:40:00.001+08:00

... Maaf Zahir & Batin

To all Muslims the world over.

May this Hari Raya bring lots of cheers and joy!

Mind troubling virus in the air...

2009-09-17T09:09:00.002+08:00

It was only less than a month after the previous (and very first) admission to the hospital... and, my boy was admitted again on the 11th Sept 2009. Again, it was fever but thankfully, he did not have a fit.

After the last admission, we got informed at what high fever could do and did not want to take chances. This time, unlike before, he had fever on and off for three days before complaining of chills in the middle of the night. Once I heard "I'm cold" and saw his shivering body... we rushed to the hospital. Without DH by my side, I've got to take actions and fast!

It was 4am on the 11th Sept 2009 when we got Arthur to the emergency ward at HUKM, KL. We were back in KL a few days before to attend my brother's wedding registration and I was to go to the Ibu House for a demo to a group of mothers for Malaysian Babywearers. Briefly, we stayed most days of the trip in HUKM.

Upon checking in at ER, (they took the case seriously upon the mentioning that he had febrile fit previously), they did a blood check. Know what?? All these while (even for all the five days with fever), my son is still his active, usual self. When the nurse took the blood sample, my son sang her a song and told her he likes her checking him *slap head**

Anyways, just like the previous admission, his platelet count was low.... and, they suspected dengue this time. Otherwise, we could have gone home and wait for the fever to go away on its own. After admission, his platelet count rose back to normal but he had cough and flu... so, we were moved to a different area... quarantine for suspected H1N1. My heart... sank... Fortunately, the test was negative and we got discharged on Monday.

The thing is... what is this virus that keep giving blood samples a low platelet count and makes a child suffer from fever for five days?? On both occassions, we are not the only ones with this problem... Scary... especially when he had a fit the previous time. We almost thought we lost him.

Why not egg white?? We did use egg white but like previously mentioned, it will only bring the temperature down... the virus will still need to be taken care by the medications. With the use of egg whites again, we managed to keep his fever at an average 38C... once the egg whites 'cooked'... we can feel the temperature rising again...

As it is, we are already washing hands quite frequent with the proper method.... before and after we eat... when we get home from an outing... whenever we felt our hands are dirty... What else can we do to better protect ourselves??

And my boy gave me the solution ;)

2009-09-03T23:08:00.002+08:00

We are out quite often these days... as my little one grows up and become more active these days, we have more plans for the day... playgroups, little excursions, shopping... and lately, he pestered me enough to start him on the Pingu English class that one of my friends started. That leaves us coming home about 3-4pm each day... he's tired out, of course. And, most times, he fell asleep in the car and I will have to carry him from the car to our home... four storeys, without lift access.

Now that he has walked 'enough' and climbed the stairs 'enough' times, he knows only too well that 8 flights of stairs to home is a tiring task... so, he will ask me to carry him. Momma's standard answer is that he is now a big boy and is too heavy for Momma to carry...

Well, after many of those ~~excuses~~ reasoning, he finally worked things out and gave Momma THE solution.

Today, as we are driving home, we had a chat and he did the reasoning this time...

Arthur: Momma... do you have a sling?
Momma: Yes, I have many of them at home...
Arthur: You can use the sling and babywearing, then I won't be too heavy for you to carry
Momma: (hmmm... you are right) I'll try next time, ok?
Arthur: Ya... you can put one in the car and then can carry me home...

Oh, well, why not?? Since when he is asleep, there is no choice but to carry him up. I might just leave a wrap or my Beco in the car ;)

Miraculous Egg White brings fever down

2009-08-28T04:32:00.002+08:00

On the 13th August, as we were getting ready for the trip to KL for the many Malaysian Babywearers event lined up over the weekend, something shocking happened... my little Arthur had a fit due to high fever and was rushed to the ER of Hospital Seberang Jaya.

Briefly, the fever started the morning of the day itself and as what I'd normally do (as there was nothing else but just the fever), I'd given him Paracetamol to bring the temperature down. After giving him the medication twice, it was still no better. As we were already packed for KL the night before, DH and I have agreed that we will first bring him to the Paed before we start our trip. Just as we were leaving our place, my little one was throwing a tantrum and asking for the jossticks for prayers. He knelt beside DH who had just finished praying and was eyeing me rudely... when DH was ready to pass him the jossticks, he did not answer or move but his eyes were still eyeing me rudely... after a few attempts of calling him to get his prayers done and no response (we thought he's still acting angry and just being rude not responding), DH put the jossticks down and pick him up... only to find him vomiting and urinating (he was already toilet trained at 2), lips turning purplis, only showing the whites of his eyes.... with no response.

I don't know if there is any word that can explain that moment better than shock. It might last a few minutes but to me, it seemed like eternity. We (or, was it just me??) were so shocked and frightened of losing him that we kept calling his name out loud and shook gently... things you see from TV on reviving someone who's passed out and he came to. As I rushed down the steps, cradling my little one, I can still feel that tremendous fear like it is happening now... I kept talking to him and made sure I ask him lots of questions se he doesn't pass out again.

Is it H1N1? Is he going to suffer? Will he stay with us long enough before we can reach the hospital??? It is something you would not even want to wish on your worst enemy.

Later, we learned that he had what is called a fit and the Dr informed us that it is quite normal for children between 5months old to 6 years old to experience it. As 'normal' as it is, it can still result in brain damage and things that you might not want to imagine... So, my little Arthur was warded. After checks and blood samples, the Dr confirmed it's just a viral fever... The word 'viral' got me worried as it was playgroup day and he was out playing with his mates...

Two nights in the hospital and the fever still didn't seem to go away. I was advised to keep wiping him down with cold water etc. etc. but nothing really worked. The fever went away with medication but when it has worn out, it returned...

My Sis called and gave me a remedy to bring the temperature down - FAST. Later, I learned it is something my grandma used to use on her children and us... RAW EGG WHITES.

How it works?? Mom said my grandma used to just spread the egg whites over the forehead and chest as how you'd brush pastry with them... Sis improvised it and advised me to "soak some facial cotton in egg whites and leave them on Arthur's forehead and chest (i.e. where it is most hot)... you can see the cotton dry up slowly and the egg whites cooked". So, DH brought a couple of eggs and we tried it out... it worked... within MINUTES! While medication is still necessary to fight the virus, the egg whites sure brought the temperature and our worries down. I have tried Bye-Bye fever and that sort and it didn't work.

My father-in-law brought other 'remedies' but I was not sure if I wanted to feed Arthur those... Admittedly, I am quite sceptical with 'remedies' that goes in the mouth. So, the eggs whites is a good recommendation I'd follow as it does not require swallowing.

Who would have thought something cheap and readily available works MIRACULOUSLY. Arthur didn't like me wiping him so much and I didn't really feel like disturbing his sleep by wiping him so it is a really good remedy that WORKS! Even the Doctors were afraid of the sudden change and would not discharge us until the next routine check. I still remember the Dr saying... "he looks and acts so active but it's hard to discharge him cos he's had high fever for 2 days... let's wait til later in the evening".

Still unbelieving, I did a search on the WWW and well... not only we use this but lots of people (but me :( ) has been using this for a long time. Some would put the whites on the sole of one's feet, too. Reading on further, it seems like a good cure for burns, too...

One of the better ones I've got from searching (http://www.myhomeremedies.com/topic.cgi?topicid=84)...
"I know of an exceptionally effective natural remedy for healing burns and lowering a fever: egg whites.

Egg whites are by far the best method to lower a high temperature within MINUTES! When I was about 4 or 5 years old, I had acquired a fever so high that I started to hallucinate. My mother was in a panic, she feared brain damage if something didn't lower the fever and FAST. My grandma told her to soak 2 cloths or hankerchiefs in egg whites and put on the soles of the feet (cover with socks). The egg whites instantaneously start to draw the temperature DOWN from the brain (where it is dangerous) to the feet (where it can do no damage). After that incident my mom used this method successfully every time I had high temp.

The egg whites are also a miracle cure for burns, even severe ones. Soak or coat affected area in egg white. While the egg white is still wet you will feel no pain from the burn. As soon as it dries up the pain comes back so reapplication is necessary. This method not only aleviates the pain it actually heals and prevents scarring from the burn.

I submited this remedy to earthclinic.com and there has been a lot of positive feed back: http://www.earthclinic.com/CURES/fever.html

I would like to let more people know about the miraculous effectiveness of treating fevers and burns with egg whites so please post this on your site if you deem fit.

Best regards, Ani from Ontario, Canada"

Am I getting too boring?

2009-08-11T21:51:00.003+08:00

It's World Breastfeeding Week from the 1st Aug to the 7th Aug 2009. In conjunction with it, I have been invited to quite a few places... for business and to promote MBW.

As I go around promoting our group and promoting babywearing... I hear myself asking this question over and over again... am I getting too boring? It is seeming like wherever I go... I repeat myself... again... and... again... in this case, I have been introducing people to babywearing... again... and... again...

But, then again... it feels kind of out of place if I don't do the introduction to the many carrier options available.

Hmmm...

Even at the Penang gathering these days... having a topic seems to be difficult. Especially most of the attendees are regulars now...

And, to make it seems like the world of babywearing is at a standstill (to me), IBW09 keeps hanging...

Could it just be me thinking too much of things? Or, could it be age getting at me?

Mojo jo jo...

2009-08-10T18:15:00.002+08:00

It has never occurred to me that having the 'mojo to blog' is of such importance. For a while, it was easy and almost effortless to blog... and for the other while when I was quiet... well, it seems like I've 'lost my mojo to blog'??

For a while, all you've been hearing from me (thank you so much if you are one who kept checking time and again at this blog even when it is not being updated) are FAQs and some cut and paste story or even just some information update... and nothing more.

So, ok... let's try this again... shall we?

FAQs

2009-08-01T04:01:00.000+08:00

1. What is the difference between the Stretchy Medley Wrap and the Woven Medley Wrap? While the Stretchy wrap is made of knitted fabric (think T-shirt fabric), the Woven wrap is made of woven fabric (think bedsheets)

2. If the answer to no. 1 is in the material used, how are the materials different and which is better?
Knitted fabrics are stretchy and can be more comfortable (compare wearing a T-Shirt to a Shirt) but due to it's 'stretchiness', will tend to sag and pull you down as the baby grows heavier. Thus, Stretchy wraps are usually recommended for use with babies up to 6 months old although it is not surprising to see one using it beyond that. Also, because it is 'stretchy', it is possible to pop baby in and out of the wrap without re-wrapping the whole thing.... Woven fabrics are generally sturdier and more lasting. The Medley woven wraps are strong enough to be used with babies from newborn to toddlerhood. At around 15kgs is when one usually feels the strain of wearing a toddler in a wrap. That said, there are a variety of woven wraps in the market. Be sure to check with the vendor if the woven wrap you are gettin is suitable for use in hot climate. The Medley wraps are sturdy yet cooling enough for the Malaysian climate :)

3. Have you heard of the Moby Wrap, how are the Medley's wrap different from the Moby Wrap?
The Moby wrap is similar to the Stretchy Medley in that it is also made of knitted fabric.

4. What is the maximum weight the Medley wrap can carry?
In wrapping with a woven wrap... this question usually goes back to the babywearer's own endurance level. Generally, you can comfortable wear your baby in a wrap until he or she is about 15kgs.

Medley Wraps are in Malaysia!

2009-07-24T00:07:00.002+08:00

Medley is a Czech producer of wraps, Mei Tai, Ponchos and the Alpino Carrier. It has been known as the producer of quality carriers comparable to many well-known brands, at a more affordable price.

Check them out at the Peek-a-Shop today!

Littlepods SSC now available

2009-07-03T17:58:00.002+08:00

Check it out now!

Beware! It's really a scam!

2009-04-29T00:04:00.002+08:00

I have received an email containing the following message a few days ago. It is ver similar to what I have received and disregarded years ago. What struck me to actually blog about this is... I received THAT phone call yesterday. It was an automated voice and the amount is exactly as stated in the email that I read: RM4,982. I simply hung up because I have just read that email a few days ago.

Imagine... if I hadn't received or read that email... could I have been a victim?? The simple thought of it is scary enough...

And, yes, the number that called was +601300808888. My hubby got a call from the same number on the same day, too. Only he didn't pick it up. It's his habit not to take any calls from unknown party. Since his line is a sub from mine... we are wondering if this has got anything to do with the telco we are attached to??

Anyway, please read and beware!

"Dear friends,

I have been cheated recently. So I would like to share my experience with you all on how the tactic they use. You can forward this to your friends so they will know about it

1) On Saturday, I receive a phone call from AMBank, a system playback message announce that "You have outstanding balance of RM4,982 for the AMBank credit card, kindly make the payment asap. For customer service, please press 1"(This is the first step, they make you angry. When you angry, you lost your mind)

2) Since I do not have credit card service with AM Bank, I press 1 to talk to the customer service. And after providing my name and IC number, the customer service told me that there is a credit card under my name. I respond that I did not applied it before. The customer service say is it possible that people stole your info and make a credit card from it. She suggest me to call the Bank Negara - Pusat Pengurusan Kad Palsu to make a report so that they will investigate on it. Since it is Sunday, she suggest I make the phone call on Monday and provide me a phone number 03-8659 0241.(This is a fake number, Bank Negara do not have such department. Bank negara number is 03-2698-8044 )

3) On Monday morning, I make a phone call to the given number, I can hear the announcement "Terima Kasih kerana menhubungi Bank Negara..." After that I talk to a guy that speak in Malay. He call me back later with the same callerID, and start to ask my detail of complain. He also keep on telling me that if what I say is not true, I will be caught by police and jail. He then ask for all my credit card detail, have I ever use credit card on ATM, my ATM card and the balance. He also told me not to expose the report detail to my friends as it may affected the investigation result. After that he give me a report number and mentioned that a colleague from other department will help me to secure all my bank accounts.(They do this step to make you believe that they are true, so that you will corporate with them)

4) After a while, I receive a phone call from a girl, she told me that they have suspend all my bank accounts now. But the ATM card they cannot do it remotely, hence she want me to go to the ATM machine, and key in some special "PIN" to stop the card. After I reach the ATM, she call me and told me that later what I see on screen is not the true info. I just need to key in the PIN given by her. So I just follow the step and key in everything. She then ask me to destroy the transaction slip and throw it away. Then told me within 3 days cannot use my ATM cards and other bank accounts.(Key in the "PIN" at ATM is fake also, those PIN is actually somebody account number and the amount to be transfer.)

My suggestion
Always call back to the Bank to verify, are you really have that credit card?Bank always have a tollfree number, including Bank Negara. And you can easily find the real bank number on internet "

Disgusted by babywearing?

2009-04-27T02:28:00.003+08:00

Nothing discourages me to promote babywearing more than the look of disgust on people's faces at the mention of carrying their babies. We are talking about people who feel babies shall be 'trained' from 'young' to be independent. We are talking about people who feel like carrying their babies will only result in clingy babies... How and what can we do in these situations other than to just keep the babywearing love to ourselves and queitly hope in our hearts that it will make sense to them one day, hopefully in time, that loving their baby (and, carrying them) does not mean spoiling them and certainly will not result in clingy babies.

Looking at my own almost-3 Arthur, he is much more confident than many kids his age. Indeed, he is much more independent and confident than his school-going cousins. Having worn him EVERYDAY since he was 10 months old til the time he found his legs at 18 months, Arthur was never really a clingy boy.

Indeed, ask anyone who knows him (well or not), you can find that he is very sociable and well, shall I say, entertaining, at times ;)

Before you feel disgusted at the thought of babywearing or even breastfeeding, think again... wouldn't you feel more confortable, happy and more trustworthy shall you have someone hold you close when you needed a hug? Would you really prefer to cry by yourself, in a corner of the room, so you can train yourself up to be more self-dependent?

Bear in mind, what you are 'training' your child today goes a long way. How are you 'training' them to be independent? If it is through encouragement that they should suppress their feelings and not show it... how else do they take care of stress? The world is, after all, getting more stressful by the day and before you know it, Stress Management could very well be a pre-school subject one day.

Children learn what they live

2009-04-23T21:00:00.002+08:00

If children live with criticism,
They learn to condemn...
If children live with hostility,
They learn to fight...
If children live with ridicule,
They learn to be shy...
If children live with shame,
They learn to feel guilty...
If children live with tolerance,
They learn to be patient...
If children live with encouragement,
They learn to be confident...
If children live with praise,
They learn to appreciate...
If children live with fairness,
They learn justice...
If children live with security,
They learn to have faith...
If children live with approval,
They learn to like themselves...
If children live with acceptance and friendship,
They learn to find love in the world...

~Dorothy Law Nolte

Glitter Ball

2009-04-23T02:32:00.002+08:00

This is my favourite playgroup project thus far. Thanks to Debz who shared this idea with us. Brought back memories on how I used to play with glue on my hands as a kid... kind of messy but lots of fun ;)

Supplies required...

1. Balloon

2. Glitter, paper scraps, thread, ribbons etc. (anything you want to stick on it as embellishment. what you see on the one above is ribbons and glitter from Tesco-party confetti)

3. Glue (we used the glue from Tesco... paper glue that's white in colour sold in a bottle with a scrapper)

4. Scissors (to cut the threads etc.)

The way to do it...

1. Inflate balloon to about the size of your palm. You can certainly have a bigger balloon but I'd suggest you start with a small one first to see if you like the result before proceeding with a larger project. Especially if you are doing it with kids, you might want a even smaller balloon ;)

2.Tie balloon up

3. Spread glue all over balloon. You can also choose to do it in parts if you are afraid the glue will dry up too soon.

4. Stick glitter, ribbons etc. (and whatever else you have) all over balloon

5. Add strings all around for a proper structure

6. Tie a piece of string to the knot (this is for you to hold your masterpiece)

7. Hang it dry

8. Deflate the balloon by poking a pin into it

9. The balloon will shrink but the dried up glue stays with all the embellishments and...

10. Voila! You've got yourself a transparent glitter ball!

Now, start peeling the glue off your little one's hands ;)

FREE sessions at Fit for 2, Bangsar Village, KL

2009-04-10T05:17:00.001+08:00

Bumps, Mums and Muffins - a weekly informal chat over FREE ginger tea and snacks. We will line up guest speakers (ranging on topics on breast feeding to bathing baby) as well as birth stories from other mums and of course along with all this comes a healthy dose of friendship and fun! You can call Fit For 2 to find out who our upcoming speaker will be! Every Friday 1130am, Fit For 2 Cafe

Fit For 2 Workshop – held on the first Saturday of every month at 1130am, a practical workshop to introduce both parents to a happy, fit and safe pregnancy and new mummy period. Also a time for questions and discussions. Please call to make reservation as spaces are limited, Fit For 2 Studio.

Contact:

Fit For Two Fitness Services

Lot 3F-1B, Third Floor, Bangsar Village II2 Jalan Telawi 159100 Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

Tel: 03 - 2287 5001Fax: 03 - 2287 5002

E-mail: mariani@fitfor2.com.myHomepage: www.fitfor2.com.my

Rocket fuel chemical in baby formula

2009-04-03T22:17:00.002+08:00

Not long ago, it was melamine. Now, rocket fuel chemical?? What's next??

I have been out visiting new Moms for the past month on breastfeeding and babywearing. 3 out of 5 are determined to make breastfeeding work. 2 just does not have the confidence that they can supply enough for their little ones. 1 out of the 3 determined Moms feels the 'need' to supplement breastmilk with formula...

Not a very happy looking statistic with only 2 out of 5 being able to breastfeed exclusively.

Look at this, read the news... Melamine...BPA... how much can a baby take??!

Maya Ring Sling

2009-03-27T16:22:00.005+08:00

This sling is getting rave reviews for comfort and ease of use! The shoulder has been redesigned so the sling automatically conforms to your shoulder. No more fussing with the shoulder cap or spreading the sling across your back because this design puts everything exactly where it is supposed to be - the first time. The light padding on the shoulder is beautifully invisible. The rails are still unppaded for easy adjusting. The added ease of use and comfort in this design stands head and shoulders above the competition. Fans say it is the perfect first sling for new babywearers.

Additional Features

Wear newborns through toddlers in a variety of positions

Made of beautiful hand-loomed, breathable fabrics

Built in pocket for keys, diaper, cell phone etc.

Unpadded, open tail that allows for perfect adjustability and is convenient as a nursing cover

Fits easily into a diaper bag or purse

Machine washable

Recommended for children up to 35 pounds

Instructional DVD included

Get it from Charantya Store today!

Kozy Carriers restocked! XL straps AVAILABLE!!

2009-03-25T08:41:00.005+08:00

Check them out today at Peekaroobaby!

When you have more slings than clothes...

2009-03-21T13:16:00.002+08:00

I was just checking out the forums on babywearing and lurking around the threads where people talk about the stash they have. I just cannot help wondering... looking at the huge stash that one could have, will there ever be a time where ones's carrier stash is greater than the amount of clothes one has?

Just for thoughts...

Peek-a-Big Bib

2009-03-19T14:56:00.002+08:00

XL-sized for your little ones
Waterproof
100% cotton (exclusive of binding)
Velcro closure for ease of use
Keeps mess at bay
Use it not only for meals but whenever your little ones tend to get messy... (as cook's little helper or even when getting creative with paints)
Another handmade Peek-a-product to suit your needs

COMING SOON to Peekaroobaby!

It's a Bargain!

2009-03-19T09:26:00.002+08:00

Whether times are good or bad, everybody likes a bargain. The only problem is, what exactly is a bargain?

To me, things that are discounted can be considered a bargain. But then, of course, the higher the discount, the better the bargain ;) However, how excited am I towards the different numbers to the discounts??

Less 10%... "ok, it's probably going to be discounted further. We'll wait and see"
Less 20%... "it's probably a good time to get it now... if we need it"
Less 30%... "we should really think about it. If we miss this, we will need to pay a higher price for it in future"
Less 40%... "That's a really good price... considering what it was worth before..."
Less 50%... "We really need it now. We sure can make use of it somewhere"
Less 80%... "We might not need it now but we can buy it and keep it for the future... I'm sure we'll need it one day"
Less 90% or more... "Just grab it first, we can just give it to someone who needs it!"

Well, that's me, generally, with many things...

In case you are wondering on the possibilities of things getting to be discounted by 90% or more... I'm sharing my Mom's idea of a bargain with you...

Less 10%... "that's no difference from the original price"
Less 20%... "hmmm... ok. So, that's discounted already? When's the next drop in price?"
Less 30%... "Ok, I'll think about it..."
Less 40%... "I guess it's worth buying now..."
Less 50%... "That's quite a good deal... isn't it?"
Less 80%... "So, am I really going to make full use of it?"
Less 90%... "I don't care what it is. Just buy it now and work it out later"

It might not be surprising for bargain hunters but over time, these are the bargains that Mom hunted down...

RM10 for a set of dining table+6 chairs (Usual RRP RM 500+)... still brand new and wrapped in original casing after 2 years!
RM10 for an Ikea trolley on wheels (Usual RRP about RM 80)
RM0.20 each for Snoopy melamine forks (Usual RRP RM 5.90)

I'm sure there are more but I just cannot get them into my head now. The above should give you an idea, somehow.

The thing is, when it comes to bargain hunting, we all have different point of view. I was once invited to go on a shopping spree with my ex-colleagues which was supposedly meant to be a bargain and I bought nothing. Branded outfits at a huge discount and branded perfumes at 'cheap price' is not my idea of a bargain.

My best achievement in bargain hunting so far? It was during Uni days in Sydney when I managed to get a brand new, out of the box Ikea wardrobe and a brand new, out of the box Ikea writing table at AUD$5 each. Now, that's what I truly call a bargain!

p/s: the above illustration, is really looking more at our 'wants' than our 'needs'. Of course, when it comes to basic necessities like food, we can't really wait til it's 90% off the original price, can we?

Structured Playgroup

2009-03-16T01:00:00.003+08:00

Together with a few other like-minded Moms (that does not want to send their children to kindy/nursery at an early age), we have started 'structured' playgroups and been doing it once a week since the end of last year.

Many have been asking about what exactly it is and how does it differ from the normal 'playgroup'...

For one, most playgroup is only 'play'. We put some kind of 'structure' into ours so our children can get the opportunity to learn/explore together other than just playing together (though I am pretty sure they learn lots when they play together, too).

So, what exactly do we do? Once a week, we meet up for 4-5 hours. We will usually meet around 11-11.30am at someone's place. Lunch is usually the first agenda, unless we were to swim for that day or the host has some activity in mind that is not suitable for after lunch.

Lunch and chit chat (while the children play freely with each other) usually takes around 90 mins to 2 hours, after which, the host for the day (or someone) will share with us the activity of the day. The sharing is totally up to the host and it can be something from reading a book to having fun with crafts (I will start posting about play ideas later). Depending on what exactly we are doing, this can take about 1 hour to 90 minutes.

The playgroup usually ends around 3-4pm.

It's sizing again!!

2009-03-15T01:36:00.002+08:00

It's never easy to size a pouch. The best we could do is to arrange a meet up and try it on for ourselves!

Then again, that doesn't always work. Why???

The ideal position of having the lowest point around the belly button doesn't work for all. Some prefers it higher up, some prefers it lower. It's a thing on personal preference. The pouch may look too big/small for the wearer but if the wearer INSISTS that it is comfortable, it's not easy changing their perception, even when it is INDEED too big! (too small usually is not much of a problem)
We assume too much when sizing ourselves! We tend to think if we look bigger, we shall have a bigger size. If we look taller, we need a bigger size. Truth be told, or rather, the fact is, tall or short, big or small, our bodies are built differently. We can be tall with a long body and short legs or short with a body with long legs... you get the idea? No? Well, to gain the ultimate babywearing experience with a pouch, the measurement is taken from one shoulder to the opposite hip bone... so, if your body is long, you will have a bigger measurement compared to one with a short body... nothing to do with your overall size though it does give us a general idea
We love the pouch but wish we could share it!... so, all possible users measured and the if we buy the largest size among them all, all can share, right?? Wrong! Imagine not feeling at all comfortable with the pouch simply because it is just too big... will you really want to use it again?
We have been using a particular brand (say, S size works wonders), so S size from another should fit. NOT NECESSARILY. Honestly, even the same size of the same brand can be different over time as they go through remodification and all. Again, never assume and measure as per the instructions.

Just don't assume anything when it comes to buying pouches, especially when you are new to them. Ask and I am pretty sure the vendors will be glad to help :)

A Simple Life?

2009-03-03T08:52:00.003+08:00

Given the hectic and cluttered lifestyle of the modern world, I am pretty sure at one point or another, we would have thought/dreamt of having a 'simple' life.

Is it really that tempting? Is is really that SIMPLE? Would you REALLY enjoy a simple life?

Imagine life like these (these are all true stories that I know)...

... a life with just 5 sets of clothes for work... A set each for Mon-Fri. Simple and no need to worry about what to wear for the day

... a life with just ONE pair of shoes at a time... never a second pair until it is worn off... again, no need to be standing at the door, deciding what to wear and whether it matches!

... a life with just ONE handbag at any one time... same as above

... a life where you'll only need to decide what to have for your meals each day and nothing else...

Sounds simple? Something for you?

Let's not forget...

2009-03-03T08:39:00.004+08:00

I've been blog-hopping and noticed quite a few Mommas retreating from Blogosphere for one plain simple reason... they've lost themselves to Blogging... or, rather the Internet? and find themselves guilty for not caring for their children more.

For a while, I was afraid I would be one of them, too. That is one of the main reasons why there were such little posts from me...

As a SAHM turned WAHM, it is easy to forget what the true reason was to leave a job to stay at home... for me, it will always be because of my little one.

Even before marriage, I was one who had dreamt of being able to stay at home and take care of my own kids... if I am given the chance... if we can be financially stable enough etc. etc. I am BLESSED and GIVEN the chance. Now that I am GIVEN the chance, I do not want to misuse it. I need to know and need to keep reminding myself that my son is my priority. NOT the business.

For a while... (lucky it was not a loooong while), I 'put my son aside' and focused on the blogs, the shop... the business. My little one standing next to me while I was on the PC, begging for attention, as I 'finish' typing up that 'last' blog post... as I 'finish' posting an item for sale... as I answer that 'last email'... I'm glad it's over now...

For a while... I was ~~caught~~ tempted to put business first. Friends kept giving me ideas on how I can 'take my business to a higher degree'... some would even challenge me and ask me to 'put priority first'... they, of course, would think that business comes first.

Sorry, my friends. I know you all mean well but in my world... Playgroup comes before business. Time with my son comes before anything else, indeed... call me ??? but how else do I do it?

Latest addition to the wooden family

2009-02-28T18:13:00.004+08:00

Wooden Springy - RM 8.00 each

Hand painted wooden springy
Decorate the nursery, the cot, the play area or simply hang it anywhere you want to give the environment a cheerful look!
Measures approximately 5" in height when legs are stretched
Attractive colours and motifs
6 colours/designs to choose from

BUY ALL 6 for RM 40.00 ONLY!!

Mini Wooden Vase Clips - RM 5.00 ea

Hand painted mini wooden vase clips to clip photos, business cards, memo etc.

Measures approximately 4" tall, with the base of vase measuring 1" in diameter

Attractive colours and motifs

6 designs to choose from

BUY ALL 6 for RM 25.00 ONLY!!

Lost my Mojo for blogging...

2009-01-27T00:46:00.002+08:00

Time really.... well, you can fill in the blanks. In between my last post on New Year, it's Chinese New Year already!

Time... no matter how I try schedule it, no matter how I try to arrange my use of it, it just never seems enough. I guess 'modern day clutter' takes up more than just space in the physical appearance... it's certainly also taking up space in my 'to do list'.

Let's see... 'to do' now includes:
... spending more time with Arthur
... learning up HTML so I can be more savvy when it comes to maintaining my site and blog
... spending more quality time with Arthur
... sewing up some skirts for my niece
... spending less time off the sewing room and the laptop so Arthur does beg me to do it :(
... sewing up a bag for Arthur
... updating my blog
... read a book... rather, finish reading books I started reading...
... bringing Arthur out to playgroup
... updating my store
... ... ... ...
(and, did I say Arthur skipping his naps does not help at all?)

Time... do we really want more of it? What then, if we DO manage to get more of it? My bet is that we'll still need MORE OF IT! Thing is, we need to prioritise things in life and right now, at this very moment, blogging just does not hold priority on my list :( (especially since I read about how people can start 'following' you much more than you want them to from your blog... that really put me off...)

Oh well, it's looking like I'll never really get my mojo for blogging back... Let's just say my friends were right... I am just not a blogger-type... I guess...

HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR!!

Green is in!

2009-01-17T09:03:00.005+08:00

ENVIROSAX

Introducing, the Envirosax Botanica series... with prints on both sides. Still with the goodness of lightness and convenience to carry around! Available in sets and singles.

RM 30 each for singles/ RM 120 each for set of 5

STRING BAGS

Stylish yet practical. These string bags can expand and hold so much more than you can imagine. Bring one along with you on your next market trip to keep your produce breathing.

Easy to use and compact enough to just go into your pocket, bagful of produce can just be hung in your pantry when you get home!

And, who says it can only be used for the market! It is just as good and trendy for clothes and all things nice ;)

Available in Long Milano Handles, Long Double Handles and Short Double Handles.

RM25.00 each

Peekaroobaby will be bringing in more green options soon. Stay tuned!

It's been real long...

2009-01-13T23:21:00.002+08:00

Wow! I can't believe 2009 is here! I can't believe my three weeks break is over! I can't believe my son is going to be three this year! I can't believe my last post was more than a month ago! I just cannot believe that things went by so fast without me even realising what exactly I've been doing!

This is late but I believe in late than never...

Peekaroobaby is now going through the second New Year and wow! I can't believe it was 2007 when I first started Peekaroobaby! This would not be possible if it weren't for you, my customers and my readers :D

Here, I just want to sincerely Thank You who have been with me through the journey, sharing my passion and joy in babywearing, breastfeeding and cloth diapering. If not for you, Peekaroobaby will not be celebrating and welcoming 2009!

The year that was 2008, it was a great year and a very, very memorable one indeed. I have managed to finally get Malaysian Babywearers up and running :D Not much and only slowly building it up, though. Nevertheless, we managed not to miss a monthly gathering in Penang and are trying our best to make regular meetings in KL a reality. We managed to carry out IBW08 activities and have fun along the way. With a great team, I foresee a supportive babywearing community with MBW!

The year that was 2008, I made a few good friends and my son grew up too soon! A demanding toddler on hand, 2009 will see me having less and less time to sew, perhaps... then again, he is also growing to be kind of understanding... whatever it is, he is my priority.

The year that was 2008 and the year that is 2009 and beyond, Peekaroobaby wishes to continue its dedication to babywearing, breastfeeding and cloth diapering....

Menstrual cups

2008-12-08T23:14:00.002+08:00

It has been some time since I last posted on my ventures with Cloth Pads.

While I regard it as an upgrade in terms of environmental-friendliness to disposable pads, I must say I am not very keen on washing them. Not because they are extra difficult to wash or anything like that.... mainly just because I don't like any chores that requires me to get my hands wet.

Anyway, as I enjoy my time of the month without the discomfort that disposable pads bring (not to mention the $$$ involved) with cloth pads, I started to wonder into more options and read about menstrual cups....

I loved cloth pads for the better comfort and mainly because I don't have to be throwing as much rubbish anymore...

Now that I've found menstrual cups, I'd say it is the ultimate in reducing waste!

So, I've got my Mooncup during the Parenthood Fair in August 2008.... been using it since then... 4 times now, to be exact and it is, as expected, the best in terms of waste reduction. And, all you need is just ONE! It is just so convenient you do not have to worry about forgetting to bring extra pads with you.

Admittedly, I still switch to cloth pads for the last few days when my menses are waving goodbye... still, the mooncup is the life saver for the peak of those times in the month. If you have ever used a tampon before, it is not similar, but better ;)

Anyway, menstrual cups must be gaining popularity as I just read in the December issue of Parenthood magazine that there is a disposable version of menstrual cups available in the market now, Instead Softcups. Then again, why would you want to pay for something similar that you have to throw away when you can just invest in one and use it over and over again?

Somehow, the idea of investing in something that you need to throw away just doesn't grab me.... expecially when it means more rubbish and more rubbish...

Challenging a Tot

2008-12-05T00:52:00.002+08:00

What it sounds like is exactly what it means...

Have you ever tried all 'nice' ways to teach your little one but failed? Leading you to, perhaps, use reverse psychology? Have you ever read that challenging your little ones could help them develop better? I don't really know.

At 2 and 1/2, my little Arthur is in between the Terrible Twos and well, the Terrible Threes... as much as I try to think of them as the Terrific Twos and the Terrific Threes, well, I must admit there are times when he's far from being terrific. And, these are the trying times when DH will try to 'challenge' him...

E.g... we've kept telling him not to put his finger in the fan but of course, he keeps trying to do it. DH just snapped one day and said to LO, "Try to put your finger in and see if it hurts", while I was doing laundry nearby.

The thought of it is horrific, let alone, what if my little one, who can barely judge, really did it??!! Does reverse psychology really works with a child that young? I wonder...

Adventist Hospital Penang Nov 08

2008-12-04T22:37:00.003+08:00

It was a fine and lovely day on the 23rd Nov 2008 and more than anything else, it is the day that the Kangaroo Club meets at the Penang Adventist Hospital and I was invited to give a talk on Babywearing :)

With quite a crowd and attentive listeners, it was a fun and hopefully, informational event to the participants.
As usual, to a crowd new to babywearing, it was a brief introduction on the different babywearing options available...

Buffa-lo

2008-11-29T00:41:00.002+08:00

This is one really funny situation that I keep remembering myself to blog about.

We were bringing Arthur to his weekly Musikgarten class and as usual, we are there early so the kids could play together before the 30minutes class begin. Along with some Alphabets PVC mat on the floor, there is also a box of books for children that the kids can browse through. As there are really limited 'toys' there, the children will usually end up with a book or two and the Mommies will usually grab the moment to read to them/get them more acquainted with books.

Anyway, the funny (it might not be as funny to the Mom) incident happened like this....

A little girl who just turned three (we were discussing her age and I just got to know on that day that she just turned 3) got a book on animals and started pointing to them and asking her Mom what it is, repeating the name of the animals that Mommy told her and the conversation went on like this...

Little Girl : What is this (pointing to a Chicken)?
Mommy : Chicken-lo
Little Girl : Chic-ken... What is this (pointing to a Cat)?
Mommy : Cat-lo
Little Girl : Cat... What it this (pointing to a Buffalo)?
Mommy : Buffalo
Little Girl : Buf-feh...
Mommy : No. Buffalo... not Buf-feh
Little Girl : Buf-feh...

As parents to growing tots, we really have to mind our language, don't we?

Freaky encounter

2008-11-23T22:07:00.003+08:00

It's really getting close now... no, it did not happen to Arthur and I but it was really, really, close...

A group of us (Moms and little ones) were having lunch together at the Food Court in Gurney Plaza today and we were almost finishing when it happened...

I guess it could be my luck that my family and I are sitting in a cornered space where people cannot go around at all...

Anyway, friend of mine,S, was holding on to her little daughter,A, and trying to finish off her lunch... hubby of another friend sitting close by her, playing with his own baby... when a stranger, in his 30's approached the little girl and just cannot stop touching her...

The situation was completely weird and totally freaky!

... stranger walked up and stroke little A's hand...
Stranger : She's cute
my friend, S, : Thank you (and smiled politely and turned away)
Stranger went to the other side (that my friend turned to) and stroke little A's other hand...
S gave another smile and turned away again... and again... the stranger just cannot keep his hands off eventhough it was totally clear in S's face that "I don't want you to touch my little girl!"

Hubby was about to tell the stranger to bug off when S decided she'll just walk away from the table... thinking the stranger will leave us alone but he did not! He went on to approach the hubby and the baby... and it took another 10 minutes before he realised and understood he is not welcomed to keep touching our children and looking totally freaky!

Mind you, he did speak good English and seems polite and all... but it is still so freaky that anyone, especially a guy in his 30's, alone, is so interested in touching your little one!

Is this freaky or is this not?

NEW!! The Wooden Family

2008-11-22T23:11:00.003+08:00

Introducing the Wooden Family to Peekaroobaby. Well, there were some that were added before and they are simply irresistable, considering they are hand-painted and wooden. Have I told you, that these lovely woodies are practical, too?

Free Standing Memo Clips.... RM5.00 each

Mini Wooden Photo Frames... RM5.00 each
Magnetic Memo Clips... RM10.00 for a set of 3

Magnetic motifs... RM8 for a set of 12

Check them out from our Peek-a-Play range now!

Babywearing Awareness "Walk" Kuala Lumpur

2008-11-17T09:33:00.006+08:00

It's been quite some time since I have worn Arthur, especially since his preference for the strollers when we go shopping and such.

However, seeing so many little ones being worn together must have gotten my Little Arthur excited as he was (after months from our last babywearing moment), tugging to my sling and asking to go into it ;)

So, this was what it is... the Babywearing Awareness "Walk" held in The Curve/Ikano/Ikea on the 16th November 2008 organised by Malaysian Babywearers.

There was a much better than expected turnout... more than 20 babywearers turned up. Paired with husbands and family members, it was like a walking crowd of 40 people, more or less.

The funny moment of the day was when there was a Credit Card salesman approaching us. I was the first being approached (see baby, see business? as they were giving away all sorts of toys for those who signed up). I shook my head and walked on.... then, he saw another opportunity with Syaz and didn't want to let go it that... when Syaz told him she's got to walk together with us... we are in a group, he didn't believe it... until the rest from the back start coming up the same way... then, he knows it true. Indeed, I am not sure if I shall say he is surprised or shocked to see that many little ones at one time!

The plan for the day did not work out at all... many unexpected reasons.... the weekly weekend markets not happening in The Curve... the more than usual (well, sort of expected) crowd for lunch in Ikea...

This is us heading for early lunch in Ikea Restaurant... Can you spot the babywearers?

I had a fun day meeting up with Mommas... especially babywearing Mommas :D

Hoping it's the same for all who attended :)

IBW08 Celebrations

2008-11-12T01:41:00.005+08:00

You need a Mei Tai? Win One!

2008-11-09T01:11:00.002+08:00

In conjunction with International Babywearing Week, SnuggBaby will be launching their very own Mei Tai.

Click on it to find out more on how you can win yourself a Mei Tai :)

A night to remember...

2008-11-06T01:59:00.003+08:00

We are honoured to be invited to celebrate Guy Fawke's night with our English friends today :)

Many, like I, would have heard of/celebrated Halloween but have you heard of Guy Fawke's night?

Apparently, Halloween is mainly an American celebration while Guy Fawke's night is an English one. While the former is celebrated on the 31st October every year where children goes trick or treating, Guy Fawke's night is celebrated on the 5th November annually to remember Guy Fawke's mischief by... (you'll probably get a better understanding of this with the link from above)

Anyway, what we do for Guy Fawke's night is really to set up a bonfire to burn a/some 'Guy's... In England, this would be accompanied by fireworks and sparkly works...

Like my DH puts it, it's more or less like Tian Gung festival (celebrated by Hokkiens on the eve of the ninth day of Chinese New Year) as we burn lots of offerings and play fireworks...

... lost...

2008-11-04T01:06:00.003+08:00

Have you ever got lost in words? Or, rather have nothing to say?

For the past few months, I have been rethinking about my life and where it stands.

For a while, since last September, I was thoroughly enjoying blogging and taking pictures for the blog and telling the world about me and my parenting journey. For that time, I can forego sleep for blogging... somehow, sometime near my birthday in July, one day,... as I was preparing to blog... I stopped.

All of a sudden, I was lost in words... all of a sudden, I had nothing to say! Since then, all of a sudden, I've stopped taking as many pictures of Arthur as I've used to do.

I was lost... not only in words but in many ways... For the past few months, I have been trying hard to focus on life without blogging (my best friend did say he's surprised I blog!)... life without trying to take that picture for a blog.... life without thinking up what to blog...

A few months later, now... I feel like I'll just blog whatever I feel like blogging and put pictures up when I feel like it...

Have you ever been lost the was I was (probably still am)? Have you ever sit back and thought the Internet somehow can also be in the way of developing a close relationship with your child?

Spending wisely

2008-11-04T00:10:00.003+08:00

What do you do? How do you do it? At trying times like these, spending wisely attracts much attention. Just what is wise and how do you spend wisely?

When you really look into it, it's really not that difficult at all... instead of eating out in proper restaurants, we either eat in or just go for our meals at the hawker centres. Instead of driving across the bridge for one reason, we try to group a few more so we get more done (and, thus, the toll payment and petrol more worthwhile). And, really, we don't need that new toy, or that new carpet....

When it comes to necessities, like a pair of glasses (I needed a replacement... more often now that I have a kid), how? My glasses needed to be replaced and I was looking around the stores for good deals... mind you, I am not one after branded frames but still, the best I could get is like RM168. Coming across Zenni Opticals was like my prayers answered.

Did you not know you can order your eyeglasses online with a lower price? How?... well, you are not paying for the extra advertisements and you are ordering direct from the manufacturer! Starting at USD$8 per pair (less than RM30!), who wouldn't call that a deal? Even when you factor in the postage charges, it's still a steal!

Jewels you can chew on?

2008-11-01T08:44:00.004+08:00

... or, rather, YOUR baby can chew on!

I don't really know how it is for other Moms but for me, ever since Arthur has joined us, my jewelleries has been put aside.

The thought of my little one playing and pulling them apart is something I do not welcome. The thought of him biting into them (and, accidentally swallowing them!) is horrifying. Yes, my necklaces and bangles would have gotten much more attention from Arthur than from me, if I were to be wearing them. I know because that is his target when someone wearing them picks him up.

What's more, growing up and teething, he realised he has got a bangle on his very own wrist and no, that bangle is not spared of biting marks! It's coconut shell and hopefully, not harmful. That is a bangle 'for protection'.

So, I am amazed at this find...

They are called chewable jewels and that is exactly what it is! Jewelleries your little ones can chew on! Designed by a dentist, Dr. Helen Bloom Smith, these jewels sure are durable (ask my 2 year and 4 month old!)

The claim...

" Our Teething Jewelry Is:

* Dentist Created and Endorsed

* BPA, PVC, Phthalate Free

* Latex and Lead Free

* Dishwasher Safe"

When we first put them on, they seem to attract dust. However, as they get more used, that no longer is a problem. It must be the glossy surface to begin with. Anyway, with use, the colour and texture got better.

My little one (at 2 years and 4 months) has definitely got very sharp teeth and bites without mercy (I truly hope it is a phase). So, when he feels like biting, I will offer him the pendant instead. I know it's meant more for teething babies but well, let's just say I much prefer him biting into the pendant that on someone. And, the pendant worked. Yes... my little one, with strong, sharp teeth, is no match for it's durability.

I love bangles/bracelets most of all but I have to pass it on, for a better review and hoping it gets better use with a 10-month old, teething baby. Also, it is a bit too big for me to begin with. I suggest they come in sizes.

While my friend and I (who tested the items out) are amazed by the idea of Dr Bloom's chewable Jewels, we find that our little ones seem to know it is not something we DON'T want them to chew on.... so, it's indeed getting less attention than our watches, our slings, us etc. etc...

IBW Celebration Now Launched!!

2008-10-26T00:48:00.003+08:00

It's here now!! International Babywearing Week 2008 celebrations by Malaysian Babywearers is finally here!!

Check out the MBW Blog and check out the many contests and prizes that awaits you!

Babywearing Workshop in KL

2008-10-23T08:49:00.003+08:00

In conjunction with International Babywearing Week, Malaysian Babywearers is organising a Babywearing Workshop at Teeny Tiny Tapir, Ampang.

For a mere RM20 admission fees, which is fully redeemable on any carriers purchased on the day, refreshments are provided and you get a feast on your eyes with a Babywearing Show featuring different carrier options!

What's more??!! You get to try on the carrier of your choice and if you get lucky, you might even win yourself a sling in the Lucky Draw!

Limited to 40 persons only. RSVP by emailing malaysianbabywearers-at-gmail-dot-com.

Do it now so you don't miss out!

Check out Malaysian Babywearers' blog for more details on the many other events and contests it is organising for International Babywearing Week!

Getting There...

Peek-a-Vouchers are now available

2008-10-16T01:48:00.001+08:00

Scratching your head looking for the perfect gift? Look no further than Peekaroobaby's customisable gift vouchers.

Have a specific gift in mind (e.g.a Peek-a-Pouch) but unsure of the recipient's preference or styles? Get a totally customisable Peek-a-Voucher where you can either choose a specific amount (e.g. RM20, RM50 etc.) or a specific gift (e.g. Peek-a-Pouch Premium, Peek-a-Sense Squares etc.)

What's even better? Get a reply and print off your voucher in a matter of hours so you can present it as you wish. No postage involved!

Want a better print out? Get the voucher printed and delivered to you or to the recipient with just RM3 postage rate!

Now, that's as flexible as flexible can get :)

Celebrate International Babywearing Week!

2008-10-14T00:42:00.006+08:00

~click on above image to enlarge the info/map~

Forget designer duds—our passion is wearing our little ones!

That's because babywearing—which simply means holding an infant or toddler in a baby carrier—offers numerous benefits.

Malaysian Babywearers are celebrating this practice during International Babywearing Week, November 12 to 18, 2008. Join us as we launch our month-long celebration in conjuntion with International Babywearing Week 2008 at the Little Penang Street Market on the 26th October 2008.

The event features a promotional booth with info and exhibits promoting the act of babywearing and its benefits. There will also be a charity fund raising sales, kids colouring contest, info treasure hunt & lucky draw. A babywearing show, showcasing different options in babywearing, will take centrespace around 2.00 pm.

New to babywearing? Come and find out more. Try on the carrier of your choice and get advice and tips from those who know!

Experienced in babywearing? Come and share you thoughts or just to have fun!

Bring your kids along to participate in the colouring contest. Bring your camera for a nice family day out. And, who knows, your photo could be the winning entry for our photo contest lauching the same day at Malaysian Babywearers!

See you there!

When Mom gets a day off... it's Daddy's day!

2008-10-11T02:38:00.005+08:00

It's been some time since I shared anything parenting related in particular...

Recently, I've been catching up on reading again as I try to spend more time with my little one. We have reading times together and then, we'll both grab a book of our own fancy and read on for a while... that probably explains the lack of my blog posts nowadays, though there are lots more reasons where my time goes these days.

Anyway, I have been reading mostly parenting books and magazines and came across on the importance of Dad being more than a playmate, and how we can try to enhance the bonding between Dads and children... Moms take a day off **wicked smile**

Most of us would know how important it is for the father figure to play a part in the development of a child and in most cases (at least those I know of), Dads tend to end up being the playmate while Mom takes the roles and responsibilities of providing primary care and disciplining the child. While we are not suggesting a change of roles here, it is more of Dad and child growing to be more than playmates... growing with that special bond and trust that they can trust, respect and believe in each other... something that lacks in our family despite my many attempts to remind Dad of what's 'nutritious food' and what's 'good manners' etc.

While most books or magazines suggests more time with Dad, not many will suggests Mom not being in the picture at all... Adventurous me believed in the article in Australian Parenting magazine that Mom will need to be away for Dad to know that he is totally in charge... that the child is now all under his care. If Mom were still in the house, meals will still be prepared by Mom, Dad/child will call out to Mom when they cannot find something they want to play with etc... if Mom's not there... well, they just have to figure it out :)

From Oct 2008, Mom will get a 'day off' a month and completely stay away from Dad, son and house...

The idea of me getting a day off was appealing but really, my day off was indeed tiring as I stay away from the house for more than 12 hours... without calling home to check. Gladly, Dad realised the importance of this all and did not call to check for things... yes, he managed :D If I were not lucky enough to have invite to dinner... I would not have known where to spend those 12 hours! Now, I need to start planning what I should be doing on my next day off...

Anyway, what you must be curious to know is... the result... yes, we are talking about just Dad and child ... no helpers, no grandparents around... just the two. And, no, Mom did not prepare anything in advance for them... no food, no plans...

From the time I stepped into the door... it was 10.30pm and I was hoping that my son would be sleeping (then again, his bedtime is usually past 11pm)... there was a welcoming hug from my boy and hubby :D , with Arthur going "Momma's back"... you can tell from his face how much he misses having me around but no, he's not crying... he's glad! The night ended with cuddles and Momma cleaning him up and getting him ready for bed... for once, I'm all ears listening to him relate what happened with Dad in the day (Mom left before he woke)... I was amazed at his ability to remember and to tell me most of what happened... Dad nodding in agreement at the back...

Today, as we spend the day together (as family, all 3 together)... I must say jealousy is already builing up, looking at Dad and Son having 'something' they've learned to do together that I do not know of... and how my Son is now more trusting towards Dad and how Dad actively takes on the role of ensuring Son gets a full stomach... things that I'd say would never happen if I did not take the 'day off'...

Today, as I see them together... it's as though I've been away for ages and tuned out of lots of things... secretly glad and happy that they have this new found understanding and fondness of each other ...

Are we looking at the next Mom's 'day off'?... For me... it is tiring but if it helps Dad and Son build that special relationship, I am sure I'll be able to plan some activities for myself ;p... Dad... "rather not" but he's saying this with a smile and a cheeky grin...

Son...
Mom: Did you enjoy yourself with Di-e Di-e today?
Son: (smiled and nodding his head)
Mom: Do you want to do this again?
Son: (shaking head)

And now, I need....

2008-10-03T00:17:00.003+08:00

... a new baby!

Well, well... sadly, it has now come to the stage now where Arthur finally pick the stroller over me... in a way, it is good timing, too. As comfy as a wrap could be, Arthur is ever growing and I must (sadly and teary-eyed) admit that if no longer feels totally comfortable wearing him. Especially when he is quite tall for his age (as commented by many), his dangling legs somehow makes it harder.

Of late, my babywearing journey has seen me showing more and more people how to wear a baby and that gives me the opportunity to wear a baby! Sometimes, I so miss that feeling.... how I wish I can borrow the baby for a day!

Hmmm.... in the world of babywearing, babies just grow too fast. Mom simply does not have enough time to try out all there is.

Envirosax Restocked!

2008-09-28T23:06:00.009+08:00

Greenies alert! Envirosax are now restocked with the new Retro Kitchen series...
... and not forgetting the all popular Kids Series...
Envirosax® reusable shopping bags are spreading the eco-friendly message with style!

Chic, in-expensive and compact, Envirosax® environmentally friendly shopping bags carry the message of re-use to a world ready to embrace a brighter ecological future.

Using eco-friendly reusable shopping bags instead of plastic bags is a culture, which will evolve over time. Envirosax makes the “move in the right direction” easier by providing a bag that rolls up and becomes a lightweight and portable, 1.4oz package. These groovy bags, available as single items, also come as an assortment of 5 durable waterproof, lightweight bags contained in a small pouch. The pouch is small enough to stow into a glove box or a handbag, so forgetting your green bags again is now a problem solved!

Check out Peek-a-Green items now!

More on Sax...

2008-09-27T00:33:00.004+08:00

Can you recognise that green 'bib'? Make a guess... what is it?? Ok, ok.. the title gave the hint, didn't it? Well, it was one of those days when I forgot the bib... Useful, isn't it?

Now, you know that Envirosax can be more than just a reusable shopping bag :)

Feast on the eyes!

2008-09-08T02:18:00.002+08:00

This has been sitting in my camera for ages... me being me.. how can I resist a photo of these two traditional babywearers! Matching fabric, too :)

Aimed with a smile and my camera, I got their permissions to take their photos for use in promoting BW :D

Can you see how neatly the sling is tied? Or, more like, how comfy the little ones at the back are? Certainly enjoying their ride!

My Little Arthur...

2008-09-01T07:37:00.003+08:00

After reading an email on how stalkers can get info from the much loved WWW to play 'I really know you', I have decided to make My Little Arthur a private blog.

If you are interested to check out Arthur's progress and know more about us (or have been a regular reader of My Little Arthur) please let me know so I can send you an invite :)

Even from papers and articles I've read, it is indeed easier for predators to find their preys when they 'know' them. From an advertisement not so long ago, it even highlighted that children will be off guard if a stranger know their names... the stranger could easily come up to befriend them, telling them that he/she is one of Mommy's/Daddy's friend.

Yes.. scary... to the point I am now no longer going to post so much info of us to the public. Even with friends and family, I must admit that it does come as a surprise to hear people know when Arthur had a hair cut!

It's so weird...

2008-08-13T08:45:00.003+08:00

It's so weird...

to see a baby using a bottle to feed
when I hear people give negative remarks on breastmilk, on how it is not as nutritious as formula
when I hear that babies NEED to be given a mix of breastmilk and formula
to see people constantly checking out prices for formula and disposable diapers (and, to think I was one of them, where diapers are concerned)
to be explaining to people about cloth diapers and getting the 'yucky' reaction
to see caregivers struggling to carry babies with their bare arms
to see someone letting their little ones 'cry it out' even when the little ones are less than a year old
to have peole look at us in disgust when we are wearing our babies
when people come up to me (as I was wearing Arthur in a wrap) with a look of horror and an offer to help...

It's all just so weird ... I am probably weird...

Does price reflect the quality of carriers?

2008-08-07T02:41:00.002+08:00

Some time ago, I saw this hybrid 'ring sling' being sold in Giant.. on offer... RM12 or less! Yes, you read it right! RM12. It can be folded til the size that would fit a little umbrella holder...

Today, we checked out the newly opened Econsave in Butterworth and, among all others, saw a couple considering to buy a baby carrier... the simple ones with four straps and buckles.. those that will hang baby by the crotch... RM18.30. Yes, RM 18.30! One word : flimsy! Lucky they put it down.. I was to busy chasing after Arthur to approach them :(

Thing is, it is really quite scary what we see in departmental stores these days. You would be looking at it and imagining if it would be safe to use it, if at all. Then again, those who are new to the scene wouldn't really know, would they?

In more than one ways, the price of a carrier, DOES, after all, reflect the quality of the carrier.
Then again, shall we be happy as that certainly means there is more demand than before for baby carriers? Meaning, more are wanting to wear their babies?

Now, we just need to approach them before they buy a flimsy carrier? Huh... just what would you do?

Article on Spinal Stress

2008-08-04T10:52:00.001+08:00

Infant Carriers and Spinal Stress by Rochelle L. Casses, D.C.

This is a great article that answers many questions most who are new to babywearing will have. Have a read! Click on the link!

I am not sure anymore if copying and pasting (with reference to the original link) is against copyrights. Sorry about the inconvenience but do click, it's worth the extra minute ;)

Finally!

2008-08-02T17:09:00.005+08:00

Finally, after a year and countless suggestions to include nursing covers into Peekaroobaby, it finally makes sense.

All it took was a couple of friendly reminders "It's useful what!" and I was determined to make them to sell. So much for all those opinions before this!... Big, big thank you to my friends. (Not sure if I shall mention your names here but you know who you are :D)

Then again, those previous ones came from people who does not use nursing covers as much as this duo does... it didn't convince me enough that nursing covers are a practical addition to a breastfeeding mom's gear.

Admittedly, nursing covers were not something I'd use when I was breastfeeding Arthur. We'd just prefer to go to nursery rooms, do it in the car or, sometimes, even in the toilet. I was afraid, that even with the cover, there will be people looking our way...

Anyway, those of you who have been patiently waiting for a Peek-a-Cover (~nursing cover~), do hop over and make your selection.

Launching it in conjunction with the World Breastfeeding Week, they are all discounted at RM30.00 each (Aug 2 - Aug 7) . After which, it will be RM38.00 each.

World Breastfeeding Week 2008 is this Week!

2008-08-02T16:56:00.002+08:00

Time really passes by sooo fast and before you know it, it's been a year since my entry on my Breastfeeding Journey. Then, I was just another breastfeeding Mom, trying to make a difference byt encouraging those I am close to, to breastfeed their babies.

Then, at 2007's World Breastfeeding event, I was just another participant who was trying to make herself heard that she is all for supporting breastfeeding...

Then, I found the babywearing love and wanted to shout out to the world in my little voice that we shall all wear our babies!

Then, I was new to the place I now call home... Seberang Jaya (Penang)...

Sitting down here, reflecting on the year gone by, so many things have changed.

As far as promoting breastfeeding is concerned, I am now a member of a Penang-based support group, MMPS. Together with a dedicated team with medical doctors as counsellors, we shall be able to make a difference. Together with all passionate Mommas, we shall be able to bring forth the change in mind that breastmilk, is, after all, the best nutrition there is for our babies.

Aiming to Go for Gold, we have organised a synchronised Breastfeeding event today where 68 mothers (what do you know?? this was exactly the same number we had last year!) have attended to breastfeed their little ones for one minute, together.

In an overall smooth and positive event, we have earned ourselves a bronze medal. That is definitely a good start to a bright future for MMPS :D in our continuing efforts to promote breastfeeding :)

'Shallowing' your pouch

2008-07-28T13:01:00.004+08:00

In my attempts in encouraging DIY, I find that many have made a pouch too deep, thinking that more fabric is better? Where babywearing with pouches is concerned, please note that more is most of the time NOT GOOD...

In terms having more fabric lengthwise, you'll end up having a pouch too big that's killing your back...

And, when we talk about having more fabric widthwise (anything more than 23", in my opinion), you'll have a pouch too deep and this is especially not good when we are talking about wearing newborns.

Many of you will find that, even with a ready made sling purchased from a vendor, the pouch could still be too deep for your newborn or too deep for your liking.

Here's what I've put together in 'shallowing' your pouch - the easy, no sew way. More of for times when you need it that way for certain stages... If you need it to be permanently shallower, you'll need to be able to sew, makes sense? Also, read M'liss Stelzer's article on correct positioning.

Ok, here goes.... The first two pictures gives you the measurement of a ready made pouch, unfolded and folded...

Lie the pouch flat on the floor (with practice, you don't need to lie is flat... you can just fold it holding it up :))

Depending on how shallow you want it to be, fold the edges back accordingly. Here, I am folding it back by about 2 inches on each side...

With both sides folded, this is how it would look:

Folded before you put on, it looks like this:
As you can see, the measurement now is only an 8 inches deep pouch as opposed to the 10 inches deep pouch that we started with :)

If you don't like how the 'other side' is showing, you can always fold it inwards... but bear in mind that the folded fabric might get into your little one's way especially when we talk about newborns in the cradle carry position :

Ring Sling for a friend :)

2008-07-26T12:25:00.004+08:00

This was a special request from a special friend, namely a team member of Malaysian Babywearers :)

She provided the fabric and specified the shoulder style she would like... just because this is not available for sale in Malaysia and it would cost a bundle to get in from where these kind of shoulder style is sold.

So, yes, I did it for her :)

Would love to post actions shots of this but I am just not into using someone's stuff before asking for permission. Probably wait for her to give me some? :)

Would you like to make one for yourself or for a friend? Click the link below for instructions.

Please read the note and please respect the owner's rights to the instructions. They are put up to make babywearing affordable, so, please don't make them take these instructions away.

My Sax Experience...

2008-07-22T00:51:00.004+08:00

Ok ok... let's not get overexcited again. The spelling is correct. I did not misspell the above.

In my effort to promote environmental friendliness and going green, Peekaroobaby has been carrying Envirosax for some time now... a trendy way and convenient way to bringing out those reusable bags...

With so much news on the importance to go green and the 3Rs (Reduce, Reuse, Recycle), I am rather sad that some of my attempts to decline plastic bags while grocery shopping failed... simply because the cashier is afraid the security officers will come after them???

For this particular reason, I'd prefer to go shopping at the foreigners-owned super/hypermarkets as they are rather glad I brought my own bag and there's simply no contest on why I should be using their bags instead.

Breastfeeding Buddy

2008-07-20T23:57:00.003+08:00

A friend of mine started an online shop, Charantya Store, focusing on natural and attachment parenting products.

Of the many items listed, the thing that caught my attention is the Breastfeeding Buddy. I have seen this somewhere and wanted to source for the right snaps for similar applications. I must admit I still am not able to find it.

This Breastfeeding Buddy can be used for many different applications.

Why would I want to introduce it to babywearers? Well, as you can see from the picture below, one of the applications is to pair it with any piece of fabric/blanket/shawl to come up with an instant nursing cover!

Using the Breastfeeding Buddy with a Peek-a-Pouch

World Breastfeeding Week 2008

2008-07-20T12:35:00.002+08:00

In conjunction with World Breastfeeding Week 2008, MMPS (Mother to Mother Peer Support), a voluntary breastfeeding support group, is organising a Breastfeeding Wave event on the 2nd August 2008.

Lunch and goodies for the first 100 mothers who register to breastfeed together for one minute ;)

Together, we can break the record (only 68 Moms who breastfed together last year).
Together, we can make this happen.

Email pgmmps-at-gmail-dot-com to register/enquire today!

WARNING! These rings COULD BREAK!

2008-07-17T21:44:00.003+08:00

Some of you may have come across these rings. They are sold at sewing shops and are known to be used a sling rings by Indonesians. Indeed, in encouraging DIY ring sling (a more affordable choice to many), I did help people buy these rings, too. They are very affordable at RM5 per pair. Still great for those new to babywearing and wishing to try out ring sling options but certainly not for long-term use.

Though I have cautioned people of the possibility of them breaking, there is now one confirmed incident that a ring did break! This is why we do not encourage the use of anything that is has an obvious joint (if you have not seen one of these... they DO NOT have an obvious joint and are known to be used for slings!)!

If this can break, NEVER use craft rings... or curtain rings... or rattan rings...

While what you see in the picture will still be a much more afforadable option, especially if you are just trying out wearing a baby, if you are keen, you should just get Sling Rings (www.slingrings.com). Sling Rings has been tried and tested for safety and Peekaroobaby is now carrying them on behalf of Malaysian Babywearers.

Custom Blankie

2008-07-15T01:23:00.005+08:00

The latest custom order received is a larger than usual Peek-a-Sense Squares... a mini Blankie for someone special ;)

Happy Little Babywearer

2008-07-11T19:13:00.005+08:00

Cross posted from My Little Arthur (with video):

My little one, Momma loves to call you my little one now... you are no longer a baby... no longer a toddler... but my little one.

Momma caught you dancing with the sling, with little ducky in it and got you to pose for a photo... when I asked that you dance again so that Momma can get it recorded... you did it but was a bit shy... Arthur, Arthur, my dear Arthur... Momma is so glad you are growing up a happy little 'baby'wearer ;)

Faulty measuring tape

2008-07-08T17:16:00.002+08:00

Here it is, owing from some time ago about the potential sizing problem. Sorry it took so long to locate the faulty measuring tape and finally take a picture of it. I kept is far away from my sewing area.... for obvious reasons ;)

The blue tape is the normal one, showing the correct measurements.

The white tape is the faulty one. I have a waist measurement reading 21" with it! No, my waist is definitely not 21".

DO NOT BLEACH!

2008-07-06T12:12:00.002+08:00

I am not a bleach user buy Mom swears by them to keep clothes stain-free.

Thing is, if you are babywearing and/or cloth diapering, you would definitely want to keep your carriers and/or your cloth diapers away from bleach!

In Cloth Diapering, it is a widely known fact that bleach is bad. How many babywearers know this for their carriers, though?

While bleaching is good to keep your whites, white... most of the time, bleaching somewhat breaks the composition or the construction of the fabric. I still remember the day the back of one of my favourite white shirt of mine literally broke apart just as I was bending to pick up something from the floor. It was barely a year old and made of 100% cotton. The culprit, I suspect, is bleach as Mom loves bleaching all whites before washing.

Where babywearing is concerned, BLEACH IS A NO-NO, too! You certainly do not want what happened to my shirt happen to your carrier, do you?

The next question will then lead to... what about softener? Well, personally, I will stay away from that, too.

Frus and frus

2008-07-03T22:24:00.009+08:00

It's been decided. It's just not easy getting my website done despite paying for someone to do it. After 2 attempts, I have decided it is more than enough. The first group of people took 3 months and the second group of people is still going at it since end of Decemeber 2007 (they promised it shall be done before Chinese New Year 2008).

Instead of spending time emailing them and chasing after them, I have to just admit that I am really tired of the whole thing... I am just going to let it be and try my best to rearrange my blog shop to make it more attractive and user-friendly. That shall explain why you won't be able to log on to the blog shop for the next week. Thank you for understanding.

Perhaps, it would have been better if I'd ask around more before engaging in anyone. My trusting self definitely did not work out where web development is involved :(

Perhaps, it would have been better if I have at least double the budget of what I am paying them... could it have been better?

Perhaps, my site would have been ready by now if I went ahead and used the money to invest in a web design course instead...

Lesson learnt... the difficult way...

Little Penang Street Market June 08

2008-06-30T16:01:00.005+08:00

June's Little Penang Street Market is on exactly the same day as Arthur's birthday. We had a mini party for him the day before and he enjoyed his day out on the actual day!

New found little friend at the market

Mom was in Penang visiting us for 2 weeks. This is the first time she's at the markets ;)

Traditional puppet show at the markets... It was a day when Penang's living heritage is honoured

Surprise, surprise! Penang newly appointed CM Lim Guan Eng was there to present awards to Penang's living heritage.

Tired out Arthur slept for almost 4 hours!Nice post, eh?

Free Hugs is now in Penang!

Alison trying out the pouch

Mom enjoying her DVDs

Wrap, wrap, wrap!

2008-06-30T15:43:00.005+08:00

Though I only know 2 methods (Front Wrap Cross Carry and Rucksack Back Carry), Wrap is great! In any case in babywearing, especially with wraps, knowing just one carrying position is good enough. Know more? More flexibility for yourself though, like me, you would most probably be using one most of the time ;)

We were at the Food Expo in PISA, Penang last Friday to check out... well, food and yes, you guessed it right... there are lots of sampling involved ~yummy yummy~

Initially, my little Arthur was just holding on to my hands (as it was the first day of the Expo, it was not too crowded, so, quite safe to just hold hands)... when we start getting more and more food samplings, we both needed more hands ;)

While the pouch would still be good for us in these situations, all I had with me was the wrap as I foresee Arthur needing a nap later (He's too heavy in the pouch for long hours now)...

So, there you see... happi-ly munching away in the wrap!

As predicted, taking a nap in the wrap... one hour passed by without any discomfort ;)

Want to know about babywearing with Simple Pieces of Cloth like this? Join us at the next Penang Babywearers Gathering! 12th July 2008, 3pm, Rumah Nur, Penang Caring Complex.

Good Lies?

2008-06-26T10:38:00.003+08:00

Is there anything such as good lies? Or, rather... we usually refer to it as "Lies with good intentions..."

As my little Arthur grows, I find that it is really impossible to be 'guarding' him all the time from how others wish to "teach/discipline" my boy. Myself included, it is just not easy disciplining a toddler who are trying all sorts as he grows with the world...

My Mom, for one, will be telling him, with good intentions, that if he continues to be naughty, she will "CANE" him. No.. she's not that abusive. It's just the use of the particular phrase to scare Arthur off being naughty. We don't even have a cane at home.

Dear hubby (and many others), on the other hand, will be lying to Arthur, with good intentions, that Arthur cannot drink the ice cold drink (for he's down with flu) because it is "SPICY" ... now, can a drink really be spicy?

Often, in our busy and hectic life, we try to find fast solutions to a problem... Instead of explaining to them it is rude to be hitting people, we tell them that if they do it, they will be beaten... Instead of taking the time to explain to them that they cannot have the cold drink we are having when they are down with the flu, we try to find a quick solution to make them stay away from it... Spicy drink... fast does not usually translate to be the best, if you know what I mean.

When you look at it closer, a lot of our methods of disciplining is to scare our little ones of certain actions by them. I must admit that I do that, too... on the days when it is just so hard to control myself. Still, I hold on to the believe that if I remind myself enough, I shall be able to control myself better over time. Patience, patience...

Going back to lies... Lies, with the best intentions (for the good of your little one), is still a ... LIE. Personally, no matter how you tell it, when your little one finds out that the cane is never there.... that the drink is not spicy... they will learn that we are lying and the worst part of it all.... that IT IS OK TO LIE. At the early age, they won't really know the difference between good lies and bad lies, do they.... Still, in my opinion, a LIE is a LIE!

Just as beating/caning your little one as punishment... you are, in a way, telling them it is ok to do so, too... Ok, you might not have shown this action in front of them and they are already hitting their siblings/ other children... or, even you... then thing is, if we start doing it to them, we are agreeing to their actions, too.

So, think before you lay out a "GOOD LIE".

Custom Taggies

2008-06-21T02:39:00.004+08:00

The latest custom order completed... personalised Peek-a-Taggies.

Ok... saw that one coming... the names are all hand-sewn ;)

Love them myself... time to do something for Arthur, too?

Kangaroo Korner Adjustable Pouches is here!

2008-06-20T01:32:00.006+08:00

Yes! You read it right. Following up on my previous post on adjustable pouches, Malaysians can now finally get their hands on adjustable pouches.

One of the better known adjustable pouches in the market, Kangaroo Korner's adjustable pouches offers four rows of adjustments each.. which means, you are simply going to get 4 sizes in 1 pouch! Indeed, Tanya Westerman (owner and founder of Kangaroo Korner) is the very person featured on the Tummy to Tummy DVD pouch wearing session.

Ok, ok... I saw that question coming... yes, I've got one of the Solarveil (something I'd been wanting to try out as I have read great information on Solarveil) varieties. Penangites will probably be the very first ones to see it and try it as I sure will being it with me to our next gathering on the 21st June 2008 ;)

Availble from Tiny Tapir.

Look out for my review!

It's not about money, is it?

2008-06-17T03:23:00.005+08:00

Will it really make a difference to world of Babywearing if the slings are cheaper? Will cheaper carriers really mean more babywearers?

Guess what? Babywearing does not need to be expensive at all. If you do not already know, you do not even need to know how to sew. All you need is some long and wide enough fabric and some skills at cutting the fabric and you can start wearing your baby! We call that babywearing using Simple Pieces of Cloth (SPOC).

Too difficult? Why not add a pair of rings for RM5? Yes, still not necessary to sew. Just thread it and you have yourself a adjustable ring sling!

You can sew? Sew it, then!

Sometimes, we complain how the carriers in the market are pricey and not affordable (Believe me, I was probably one of them.. though not for long), that we focused too much on the price and neglected the use we are going to get out of it.

One might be willing to pay RM200 for a shirt that might just be worn once or twice (perhaps, for a special event) but not a sling that one could use for almost everyday of the year? Think about it...

One might be willing to pay the same amount of what one could pay for a carrier to buy a branded piece of toy for his/her little one but not invest in a carrier that could have brighten up the day of their babies? Think about it..

One might be thinking.. it's just fabric.. well, lots of things are 'just fabric' and there are people paying thousands, even millions, for it... ok, exageratting a bit here but yes, there are slings that are selling for more than RM1000 and they are sold out!

Point is, something as useful as a carrier would definitely be a worthwhile investment. And, handmade products are simply... priceless, if you ask me.

As with anything, just buy if you feel the price is right for you. With pouches and ring slings selling from as low as RM50 each in Malaysia, I'm pretty sure there's one to suit every budget.

Otherwise, there's always other options in babywearing that could be affordable to everyone. So, really, there's no excuse to babywearing not being affordable. Like breastfeeding, it's more of whether you believe it will work and how you want to go about making it work.

Happy Babywearing!

Food for Tots

2008-06-12T02:53:00.006+08:00

Yes! Hop over to Food for Tots for more ideas on food for babies and toddlers... beware, it might just outgrow the toddler stage and become the blog for all sorts of food one day ;p

DIY Ring Sling in Action

2008-06-12T02:48:00.002+08:00

Had a chance to wear Arthur out today... though non-padded, this particular shoulder style seems to be comfortable, even with a more than 12 kgs toddler!

As it was a sunny day out, forgetful me who forgot to bring Arthur's cap used the tail to cover his head ;)

My first DIY Ring Sling

2008-06-11T04:23:00.002+08:00

Our next topic for the Penang Babywearers' Gathering on the 21st June is going to be "Eyes on Ring Sling"... focusing on everything and anything ring sling.

Excited as I am to be discussing on something I do not us as much as the Pouch, I am aiming to create my own ring sling for the very first time... perhaps, someone would like to know more about DIY-ing than the no-sew method? I will then be able to truly share my thoughts on ring sling. Indeed, have been wearing Arthur (whenever I get a chance to wear him) with a ring sling since I decided on the topic.

Anyway, still hot and newly completed from the sewing room, with help from Jan Andrea's instructions, is this:

100% Cotton, Fully Reversible Ring Sling

Yes, those are aluminium rings you see.... from SlingRings
In a way, the pictures look better than the real thing ;p

By now, I guess it is no longer a secret that I love things that are reversible (so we can get more use out of it) and 100% cotton (so we are more comfortable) where slings are concerned... though I must admit that sewing a reversible 100% cotton ring sling is tedious task as it is just so bulky.

Momma Wrap.. Di-e Di-e no carry

2008-06-09T00:00:00.003+08:00

Those were the exact words from my little Arthur while we are out today.

This is a pleasant surprise since he started boycotting the sling in March.　

Then again, he does give me a little surprises now and then, helping me demonstrate, or, even volunteering to demonstrate different carrying positions and styles during our gatherings.

The biggest surprise from those words are... well, you guessed it right! He asked to be WRAPPED! Yes, I see that my little boy seems to understand the difference between a "wrap" and a "sling" now. Previously, he had requested, "Momma, sling (referring to the pouch)"...

Perhaps, it's time to teach him the difference between pouches and ring sling, too?

Malaysian Babywearers

2008-06-05T03:48:00.002+08:00

Psssst.... you might not know about this yet but we are in the midst of setting up Malaysian Babywearers, a stand-alone organisation to promote babywearing in Malaysia.

As with any organisations, I find that it is important to have a forum where we can store and discuss our ideas, don't you think?

With a limited budget, we need to get forums that provides free hosting, yet, not so dull... something different. After testing a few of the providers, I came across free forum hosting by Lefora and have decided to go with this one.

We may still be at the testing stage but do come and have a look at the cool features Lefora has... it is really something different. For one, you don't see the big advertisements on the top of the page. It also highlights the more important stuff and has a summary of the posts for easy viewing.

Favourites - Kangaroo Carry

2008-06-05T03:26:00.004+08:00

With my little experience in babywearing advocacy, though a bit difficult to get used to (for the babywearer), the kangaroo carry is by far the most enjoyable positions for our little ones.

It is no exaggeration when I say ALL babies love it, provided they are worn correctly (i.e. sitting on the fabric, NOT squatting on it). Some can even sleep in this position.

So, why the love for the Kangaroo carry? It must be because this seems to be the only position where our little ones can really look where we are looking ;) and perhaps, the secure feeling that we are always there to back them up?

Pouch slings - Sizing matters

2008-06-03T03:56:00.003+08:00

I have long wanted to share a post on sizing of pouch slings... so, here it is.

A pouch - easiest to learn, trendy, lightweight, convenient... it is no wonder the pouch, among all others, is gaining popularity in the Malaysian market. Also, could it be the lack of knowledge that there are also other babywearing possibilities other than the pouch?

Whatever it is, what many new and experienced babywearers is not aware is that, for a pouch to feel comfortable, THE SIZE HAS TO BE RIGHT! Ok, let's not get over excited on the capital letters. In a way, being the 'RIGHT' size has it's own meanings, too.

The most common misconceptions about pouches is that they should be bigger and not JUST RIGHT. For the babywearer to comfortably wear their little ones, this is very essential. Especially when the pouch is too BIG.

Try imagining yourself carrying a backpack full of books with straps too long and pulling away from your body. How long can you wear the bag for without feeling the strain?

Compare that to the straps adjusted so as the bag is close to your back.

That is the kind of difference it would make when a pouch is too big.

Too small? That is when you feel uncomfortably tight or suffocated, though many new pouch users will feel this way even when the pouch is right.

In my little experience with pouches, some of the factors that contribute to the problems of sizing includes:

The measuring tape... i know i need to put the picture in... let me locate the measuring tape in the morning... Have you ever come across a measuring instrument that gives you the wrong measurements? Well, I happen to have a measuring tape that tells me my waist is just a bare 21 inches! No, of course, I am more than that... I would consider myself aneroxic if I had that measurement. Maybe, this could explain why the measurements differ and the babywearer needs something 2 sizes different?
Body built... probably the biggest myth in pouch sizing is the height... many I know would estimate the size of a pouch from the height of a person. What is more important here is not the height but the overall built. For instance, a 6 foot tall person can have a short body (with long legs) and a short person could simply have a wider body.. if these all makes sense. I recently fitted a pouch on someone who is more than 6 feet in height and guess what? She is a size S!
Different vendors, different sizing... When a pouch user is happy with the first pouch they got and just cannot live without it, chances are, they are likely going to buy another one. Just to try things out, maybe, from another vendor... ordering for the same size, without realising that there are different measurement charts across different vendors. While the Peek-a-Pouches and Littlepods are sized by the inches (i.e. only once inch different between sizes), most others are sized to fit a few measurements in a size. As such, it is essential to check out the sizing charts before ordering a pouch. It would also be wise to check if a vendor offers an exchange if the size is wrong ;) If you have noticed, there is also a slight difference in sizing between Littlepods and Peek-a-Pouches.
Bulk of our clothes... Ever wonder why your pouch would fit nicely yesterday but not today? Have you changed your clothes? Does your little one uses cloth diapers? Though not as critical as in countries with four seasons, the bulk in clothing can also contribute to the feel of the pouch being a bit tighter/looser than usual

So, yes, the trendy, popular, convenient and easy-to-use pouch does have it's drawbacks... mainly when the size is not right.

At any time, it is most important that the babywearer feels comfortable. That is, after all, why we chose to wear our babies, for comfort and bonding ;)

My recommendations: Try before you buy ;) Else, make sure that an exchange/resizing is possible ;)

Pouch users, what's your thoughts?

International Babywearing Week 2008

2008-05-31T01:45:00.003+08:00

Yes, you read it right! There will be an International Babywearing Week, celebrating, well, babywearing and we, Malaysian Babywearers, are going to be part of it ;)

So, gear up and look out for more information from us.

Meanwhile... we might just want you to know that a great babywearing photo would come in handy then.. stay tuned ;)

From baby to toddler

2008-05-27T02:22:00.006+08:00

Last Saturday's Penang Babywearers Gathering, "Eyes on Pouch" seen us discussing and trying off some of the tricks that are not commonly known to pouch users.

The first wonder of all... what most people will find hard to believe is that the same pouch can actually fit a baby to a toddler, by just using different carrying positions.

It was great of Debz to try out the pouch with both her little ones, Jack, 5 months and Oscar 3 years... now, we can see clearly that the same pouch can fit ;)

Debz with 5-months old Jack
Debz with 3-year old Oscar

Calling Malaysian Babywearers

2008-05-23T02:08:00.004+08:00

I have a dream...

... it is one where babywearing is being practiced by most parents in Malaysia...
... it is one where Malaysia will one day have it's very own babywearing conference, just like what they have overseas...
... it is one where babywearing is nothing unusual and rather than people asking about what it is, they will stop by each other and discuss about the many ways their babies is being worn...
... it is one where babywearing is finally a norm...

This dream of mine have motivated me to start Peekaroobaby...

... this dream of mine have motivated me to start organising regular babywearing gatherings (only in Penang and KL at the moment but sure hope that it will expand to more states)

... this dream of mine have given me a whole new meaning to parenting

As of today, this dream of mine is one step closer to becoming a reality as we move forward to set up "Malaysian Babywearers" as a stand-alone, non-profit organisation in the name of babywearing.

I am glad there are others who are keen to join me on this journey in realising the dream. Then again, it does take more than a few... are you up to it? Would you like to join us in babywearing advocacy in Malaysia?

All for the name of babywearing...

KL Babywearers 1st Official Gathering

2008-05-21T05:08:00.005+08:00

It was the very first official KL Babywearers Gathering and it was mainly a meet and greet session :) where those interested in babywearing joined to check out what babywearing is all about.

There are also quite a few who attended just pick up tips on babywearing with what they already have... mainly the pouch and the ring slings.

With the help of a member of the Malaysian Babywearers, we are able to gather at a free space where food is provided... thanks heaps!

Arthur busy showing people around the place
Just at the right time, after the demonstrations with the bear, my little Arthur asked to be worn in the pouch! So much for his boycotting babywearing ... he is into promoting babywearing, too ;)
Cradle carry in Littlepods with head out
Doing some magic with the Peek-a-Pouch ;p

Registration and info sharing

Overall, it was a good turnout for a start ;) I had lots of fun getting to know KL Mommas and Papas and Bubbas and Arthur got to make new friends.

Better than CDs?

2008-05-15T02:09:00.003+08:00

Calling all CD addicts! Now that you love CD-ing sooo much, have you ever thought that there could be something that is even better than CDs?

Using CDs to cure my little Arthur's nappy rashes, I must admit that I was amazed at the results and in no time at all, turned into a CD addict. Then again, given the price of CDs... yes, it would save you money in the long run but we must agree that not everyone have the amount of money required to start off full on CDs... it wasn't really easy.. especially when you can be easily addicted for your little one to look cute ;p

Anyway, have you heard of Elimination Control? Do you think it would work?

What is Elimination Control?

"In a nutshell, Elimination Communication is about the Communication.

It is about helping your baby to go 'to the toilet' somewhere other than a nappy, some of the time, then more of the time as they grow!
It is about learning to observe baby's bodily rhythms, body language and practicing responding in such a way that your connection is enhanced, benefiting your whole relationship.
It is about sometimes anticipating the needs of a pre-verbal human being and experiencing their joy that you understand them. We strive to improve our bond.
It is about gently supporting their instinctual awareness of their body and attempting to understand them, and helping them feel 'relieved'.
It is about using nappies as a tool rather than a necessity.
It is about reducing the 'ecological footprint' of waste generated by a brand new human.
It is about enhancing your connection and understanding of your baby's needs - often into other areas of their care, and this is really empowering!
It is not toilet training, it is not 'coercive' nor is it impossible! It is gentle and responsive, or it is not EC. YOU can do it!

With EC we help the baby stay clean and dry until they gain independence in their own time, at their own pace - gradually.

Is it a better way? No, it is another way of addressing a baby's hygiene needs over full time use of nappies and changing dirty nappies for years. A parenting option.

Think of EC as another skill you can learn, another baby care option."

Extracted from http://www.tribalbaby.org/ECindex.html.
Find out more from here.

All I am saying is... for those who really want to ditch those disposables but not able to afford CDs... why not try Elimination Control (EC)?

Wear Your Toddler?

2008-05-13T00:52:00.004+08:00

With the term 'babywearing', it is no wonder why many with a toddler have turned down every piece of information on baby-wearing altogether. While some will think that their babies are no longer 'babies', others are thinking that their more-than-10kg toddler will be heavy to be worn.

Heavy? Yes, Maybe...
Whether your little one is considered heavy depends on your level of endurance. Briefly, if you have been wearing your little one since he/she is a tiny baby (infant), then, whether your know it or not, your endurance level has been slowly building and you are more likely to withstand babywearing a heavier baby for a longer period of time. Makes sense?

Too heavy to be worn? No!
Simply put, in most cases, as long as you are willing and able to carry your baby with your bare arms, you can still wear your baby. While most slings/carriers are made to be safe for up to 15kg, it has been known that some will use their slings beyond this weight limit... though only for brief moments like a short trip to the neighbourhood stall.

My dear Sis wearing my 13.5kg niece

While I am not encouraging anyone to use any sling for a little one more than 15 kgs, I am trying to let you know that it is definitely not too late to get a sling when you have a 10kgs toddler. Not late even if your little one is 14kgs!

My dear niece and I

All in all, in terms of wearing a heavy little one, it all depends on the type of carrier used (pouch, ring sling, mei tai, wrap?), the situation (crowded?), the duration (a short 15 mins walk?), the activity involved (shopping, running around?) etc. for babywearing to be comfortable. All I can say, in this case, wearing your little one will definitely be much less painful to carrying he/she with your bare arms.

Generally, for a toddler who has just discovered his/her legs,

that would be the time you would wear your baby the most...
this is the time when it's no longer possible for you to carry her with your bare arms for long periods of time...
this is the time she tries to explore the world on her legs but feels tired soon and needs a cuddle...
also, to me, this is the time we really want to keep them close to us when there's a crowd...
it's simply harder for them to wiggle off you when they are in the sling ;)
for most babies, once they reach around 10kgs, their weight start to increase at a slower rate... Arthur is 12kg... my little 4 year old niece is 14kg... and, yes, my sis still wears her esp when they are on a trip or at crowded areas.

Looking for a worker?

2008-05-11T00:37:00.002+08:00

This is what a friend of mine sent me... how true...

Looking for a worker who can multitask?

She can sing and teach while driving...

Organise lunch and dinner while doing her day job...

Handle work crisis while cooking...

Yet, never complain of hardship and remain loving...

Hire a Mum!

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!

Wear your baby... as you need

2008-05-10T02:03:00.005+08:00

My 12 kg little one has been boycotting the sling since we were on the family trip to Sydney in April.

As surprising as his sudden lost of interest in being in the sling, he seems to know when it is necessary for him to get into the sling.

Back in Malaysia, my little Arthur is no longer boycotting the sling anymore. The change could be due to the lack of greeneries for him to explore compared to Sydney... where we usually allow him to roam free at the parks.

With an active and growing baby, it is no surprise that babywearing will be less once they realised they've got legs! With Arthur, it's more like he now knows that he can climb stairs, too! (we live on the fourth floor with no lift access). Anyway, since he found out that he can climb stairs, he's even rejecting babywearing more.

The thing is... my little one seems to know and behave when Momma needs him in the sling most... when I was paying my last respect to my late granny... when we were at the bus terminal waiting for the bus to and fro Penang... when we need to wait in queue for something... when we are in a crowded place like the recently over Penang PC fair...

Could it be because I usually sling him all the time at crowded places, so, he's used to it and not rejecting it? Could it be because he sensed the need to behave while Momma is busy? Could it be because he knows that he should be quiet and calm when Momma have to pray for great-granny?.. Guess I will never find an answer to these questions.

All I can say is, I am glad that my little one is no longer having a strong resistance to the sling and will cooperate when I need him to... making excuses for him to be in the sling sometimes, though... as I do miss the days when I was wearing him everyday.

Common Sense

2008-05-08T03:20:00.004+08:00

In my years of employment, I have always been involved in training... most of the time, I am required to train the junior staff who are new in the company.

It was then when I was able to spend time observing the tips and tricks to getting the information into someone's head.

One most common mistake most trainers often misplaced is the assumption that out of common sense people should know what something means. They do not realise that common sense to one might not be all that common to others.

For instance, to people living in Australia, it is common sense that we take care of our own rubbish disposal (i.e. throwing away the empty cups, burger wrappers, dirty serviettes etc.) in McDonald's. In Malaysia, we simply do not do that. What do we do? We just leave it on the table for the staff to clear them.

If the above example seems far fetched... maybe, consider something closer to our lifestyles.

It is common sense for some to expect traffic jams at peak hours... when people get to or off work... however, if you are a housewife who rarely goes out at those times, the thought might not occur to you at all. Worst, when you try to let if off with your friends/family for being caught in traffic, they simply reply "You should know that".

In babywearing, while the pouch is known to be the easiest to learn, there are times when people just cannot imagine how to put it on correctly. Not even with the assistance of videos and photo instructions. That is the reason why babywearing gatherings are essential to make it work.

If you are not able to attend a gathering, you can always try to search on forums to find a babywearer near you who could be interested to share with you a trick or two.

Just bear in mind... there's nothing to be shy about. Ask away... as we know that common sense to one might not be so common at all to another ;)

Mother to Mother Peer Support Group

2008-05-06T02:28:00.003+08:00

In my journey to successful breastfeeding, I have always been wondering if there could be anyone who is supportive of breastfeeding rather than against it... It was definitely not an easy journey for me but I managed to overcome the obstacles and make it possible to still be breastfeeding my little Arthur to date.

Looking at how difficult a journey breastfeeding could be, I have thought of starting some group to gather interested souls and promote the act. Then again, I'm not sure if it will work.

Anyway, I am very glad that there is a Mother to Mother Peer Support Group in Penang that goes around promoting and supporting breastfeeding mothers. More glad that I can be part of this group.

If you are from Penang and interested in breastfeeding, do search them up in Facebook. Monthly meetings are organised discussing various topics on breastfeeding. Previous sessions included breastfeeding myths and proper positioning.

Arthur's graduation to hip carry

2008-05-05T04:27:00.004+08:00

This is Joe. It's the latest addition to Arthur's toys. One of the longet outstanding sewing project I was to make for Arthur is something that incorporates different ways of openings/closures. I was to make a fabric book for that using recycled materials...

We came across Joe and it was on sale. For less than RM20, Joe is much better than any fabric book I could make... it's got a zippered shirt, big buttoned vest, velcro shoe on one leg and shoelaces on the other... it is the perfect excuse... ermm... replacement for the fabric book I was about to make.

Why is he called Joe? Well, it's just one of the names that would match 'Jane'... the doll that the teacher in Muzikgarten uses when she teach. Arthur likes that doll very much.

Anyway, it's been 3 days now since Joe was brought home. For the first couple of days, Arthur did have very good practice taking off Joe's clothes and leaving them lying on the floor...

Today is the third day Joe is with us and to my surprised, Arthur asked for his sling so that he could carry Joe around.

Now, as you can see, Joe is much, much bigger than the Pooh Bear Arthur used to wear.... in a way, Pooh Bear is the infant and Joe the toddler... so, Momma have to teach my little one the hip carry.

Arthur's so happy with the new carrying position... after all, this is the position that he was worn as most of the time... he is bringing Joe with him even when he plays with other toys.

Bonding or Spoiling?

2008-05-03T02:29:00.002+08:00

Many new parents are faced with this dilemma :

"Shall we shower the baby with all the love and attention he/she require or shall be teach them to be independent from a young age?"

As with many other parenting issues, this is not one where you would receive a straightforward answer to.

On one hand, many parents are afraid that they may be spoiling their baby with too much love and attention. On the other, we all want to cuddle and hold on to our crying baby.

Bonding, the intense attachment that develops between you and your baby is, something I would say is irreplaceable and priceless. At the crossroad, the question we often ask ourselves is whether bonding = spoiling.

In my babywearing days (though I am still wearing my toddler now, it is not as often as before... missing it already), it is not unusual to come across the comment that I shall just leave Arthur to play by himself so that I can perform my housechores... "just let him cry and he will get used to it... once he gets used to it, he won't cry like that anymore"... the thing is, shall I still just let him cry when I know he's not really well (on days when he's got flu etc.)?.. shall I really let him cry on and on though he's already been crying non-stop for 1/2 hour (yes, I did try but it's no use)? The thing is, all the cries translates to "Momma, please cuddle me..." I know for sure now as he is able to express it now... only difference being I can explain to him that Momma is busy with chores and he will give me some time to finish them while he play by himself.

To me, responding to a baby's cries is not spoiling but bonding. It is only when one fulfil an excessive and unnecessary demand that it turns into spoiling (e.g. when they cry and cry for a toy/candy... when they cry just to get your attention... when they cry to get their ways...)

One good lesson I've learnt with regards to spoiling is you might as well just give whatever your child demand for right from the start if you know you'd give in to him/her if he start wailing. For example, your toddler asks for a piece of candy. You say "No". Your little one asks again. Ok... you want to be firm, so, you say "No" again. Seeing that he/she can't get it, he/she start crying... you're still saying "No"... then, he/she start wailing... you cannot stand it (especially when you are out in the public)... so, you give in... Read it again... this only encourages your little one to wail to get one he/she wants. As opposed to, if you gave it to him/her from the very beginning, it would be more of the norm.

T2T DVD is here!

2008-05-02T09:56:00.004+08:00

Finally, the wait is over. For all of you who have been patiently waiting for so long, the Tummy to Tummy Babywearing DVD has finally arrived on Asian shores.

Tummy 2 Tummy is the first non-product specific, instructional babywearing DVD available! It covers the four different types of baby carriers; Ring Slings, Pouches, Asian Back Carriers and Simple Pieces of Cloth, all in one interactive DVD.

Only limited quantities are available. So, don't miss out on the opportunity to get your hands on one especially if you are into learning to DIY your own sling as it has more then 60 minutes dedicated to Simple Pieces of Cloth.

For users of Pouches and Ring Slings, there are much more possible positions, tricks and tips that can make babywearing more meaningful, too.

Market Day 28th April 2008

2008-05-01T01:07:00.004+08:00

Back from our trip, we are setting up stall at the Little Penang Street Market once again.

Looking at how happy Arthur is, I would say he still remember market days quite well... especially when he gets to meet up with his friend again... the abang is also there with his Mom who sells creme caramel puddings at the markets... so, yes, Arthur has good company at the market now.

One of the main reasons why I have decided to set up stall at the market was to be able to provide better assistance to anyone interested in babywearing. I am so glad I did that as it has now become my point of meeting up with my customers, who return to ask for further instructions now that her 7 month-old baby has outgrown the cradle carry position.
As always, market days are filled with events that keep you going througout the day. This time round, we even had a cooking demonstration!

Look of the Year

2008-04-28T16:04:00.004+08:00

Think you've got the looks? Have you been followed by roving eyes whenever you are out and about?

Look of the year is the latest way to get yourself recognised. Whether you are from Malaysia, Hong Kong or even Australia, put your best pic in and you could be winning yourself some prize money.

What's more, modelling agencies score these boards to look for their targets. Who knows, you might be spotted and called upon to model the next season's hit product!

Why wait and hope for a chance when you can take it into your own hands? Put your pic in now!

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How long can it last?

2008-04-28T15:51:00.004+08:00

Out of the many questions I get asked when promoting my slings, I find that the most difficult to give an accurate answer to is...

"How long can it last?"

It is not like I have some secrets to hide or anything... just try to imagine that the sling is a piece of clothing. Say, a dress... Now, I ask you this question... How long do you think it can last?

Just like with your clothing, the time a sling can last totally depends on how long and how often you use it. Just like your clothes, it will go through the usual wear and tear. The more you wear it, the sooner it will thin out, the sooner the colours will fade. Makes sense?

The many other aspects to answering the question include:

how often you wear it
the duration of it being used each time
how often the sling is washed
how do you dry your sling (the dryer will take some time off the sling for sure)
the weight of the baby being worn

In other words, if you purchased a sling today and put it aside, it can last for many good years to come. If you use it everyday, you might find that you'd need a new one after a year or two.

Generally, slings are known to last for years. I have heard of people being passed on the slings and some have even inherited slings from their Mothers who used it to wear them!

My honest to goodness answer to the above question would be, all I can say for the Peek-a-Pouch is that I have been using one for almost everyday for more than a year, washing it almost every week, if not more and it is still good as new. 5 years? That will have to wait until I have used it for 5 years before I can give you a definite answer.